I'm energetic, cheerful, odd, and loving my 30's. I'm a big fan of people and the world in general. I like to think about what people say to me, and I ask a lot of questions, which some people find disconcerting. I'm highly uncomfortable in bars and drink only sparingly, but I love good tawny port, good wine, and good food. I don't eat meat. I love cherries and the ocean. I believe in interconnectedness, and though I realize that it would be much cooler to be edgy and cynical, I'm not. In fact, I've never been cool. At all.
I'm looking for a partner to share life's daily joys and occasional struggles with. Kindness, compassion, trust, honesty, and the ability to compromise and collaborate are essential to me. I am a very happy person and need a partner who is full of happiness too. I want a man who knows himself well and can talk openly about his feelings; a man with a heart full of love and a mind full of curiosity. I am very confident, affectionate, and passionate, and am not a good fit for someone who is insecure about his life, personality, or sexuality, and I'm not interested in anyone who smokes, drinks heavily, or uses drugs. I am looking for someone who is his own man, but who isn't afraid to share his heart, mind, and body with me.
I hope we can take some time to get acquainted and discover whether we can be friends or something more.