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29 M Martinez, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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Yesterday – 9:31pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
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Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous

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My self-summary
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I am here, mainly, to stay in contact with people I have already met and like to talk too. But meeting new people isn't always a bad thing.

About me? Well I'm a British person living in the East Bay. I like to read, write, go for walks/runs/hikes and hang out with friends for nerdy fun (Board/card/video games) I am also a proud redhead who will gloat about not having a soul (means no hell for me after I kick the bucket)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Stuff (good stuff, at that)

Oh you mean specifics? Well I'm in the process of joining the CHP (PAT test is in October so wish me luck) and in the mean time I am a caregiver for my grandmother.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Other stuff (mostly nerdy stuff but I make a good omelette)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably the hair (I don't know, you tell me)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Ones with words in them
Movies - that one with that guy in it
Shows - That one with that other guy in it
Food - That stuff that you eat

if you really want to know then ask me, that way we have something to converse about
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A head
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Pickles and pancakes (not at the same time, mind you)
Why people think that "I'm on OkCupid" for the 'Private' section is still funny
Whether Bono will ever find what he's looking for
Whether Paula Cole figured out where all the cowboys went?
Whether the person on the other line really was looking for Lionel Richie
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends, at a club, at home with a good book... don't really have a 'typical one' per say
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm actually a walrus

Seriously though, I am into the local BDSM scene. Not ashamed of it at all. If it isn't your thing then we may not see eye to eye on a romantic level.
You should message me if
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you feel brave! or if you genuinely want to get to know me.