Have you ever been in a relationship where you didn't feel appreciated? That wouldn't be a problem with me as I am a giving man who can very much appreciate a good woman. It's been a long time since I've had something special like that and when I find it you're going to know without a doubt how much I appreciate you. I'm a good guy. I consider my self a true gentleman in every sense of the word. I treat women with the same respect I would want someone to treat my mother or my sister. I'm intelligent, affable, and fun to be around. Not into materialism or trying to gather the most toys. Family and relationships are the most important things in my world.
Are you tired of the bad boys? Tired of the egotistical jerks and D-bags who are only looking out for themselves and have no idea at all how to be giving in a relationship? I know that most women have some experience with guys who cheat and that is among your biggest concerns when entering into a relationship. I'm the type of guy who knows a good thing when he has it. I've been cheated on. I know how devastating it can be. It's a pretty s#itty thing to do to someone. My personal takeaway from the experience is that I would never put someone through that kind of heartbreak and you can take that to the bank.
I know that by the time a woman is in her thirties she's seen and heard it all. She's been burned, used, taken advantage of, lied to, cheated on, and had her loving heart mistreated by any number of men. They are sometimes jaded, cautious, defensive, and often angry and I can't say that I blame them. Once trust is broken again and again it's difficult open up one's heart. And I'll tell you right now that I'm as just frustrated by it as you are because it makes it hard for men like me to find a good woman because they feel we're all suspect.
At this point in our lives we all have our dents and dings...we all have a bit of baggage. You begin to think that maybe there aren't any men out there who are loyal, warm, affectionate, and possessed of manners and common decency. You've seen it all and heard it all and think maybe there are no men who are worthy of your love and trust. And it leads so many of you to wonder aloud something I've heard so often-- are any nice guys left out there? Yes, there are. You've just found one. I have a genuinely good and loving heart and I'm not afraid to open it up and share it with a loving and exceptional woman.
Yes, some guys do actually take time to read the profiles. I am one of them. I read all the questions too. Why? Because I'm looking to make a real connection and get to know someone. The guys who don't read the whole thing are the ones who are just looking for someone disposable so they don't care. I'm not one of them.
And BTW if the beard is a deal breaker for you, I'd gladly get rid of it for the right woman.