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RedandBlueJay

32 Beijing, China Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:45pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I moved to Beijing two summers ago, having spent a few years in New York and Boston. I'm still exploring the city, which has morphed into a gigantic postmodern megalopolis compared to the Beijing of my childhood.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a lawyer. Most of what I do involve understanding people and where they're coming from. Over the past few years, I've been traveling a bit, to England, Wales, the Eastern Seaboard, and Cambodia, to name a few.

I enjoy reading, biking and drinking scotch. I usually hang out at used bookstores, coffee shops, movie theaters, bars with live music and museums. I try to hike at least a few times a year.

As a recovering academic, I'm in the middle of publishing most of the (exciting!) stuff I wrote in school, with riveting titles such as "On Neuroscience and Psychology's Role in Affecting Our View on Moral and Legal Culpability."

I'm going to give lectures at a couple of universities in India and Pakistan next spring and my alma mater outside Boston next fall.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing the devil's advocate. Well, that's how I make a living, can't do without it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
How mellifluously I speak. Is that a vice or virtue?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books:
It's hard to make lists! I do remember a couple of random authors I read eons ago, like Cervantes, William Blake, Kierkegaard, Hegel, Mark Twain, Lev Tolstoy, Hemingway, Romain Rolland and Saint-Exupery. At the moment I'm really passionate about Indian literature and philosophy, possibly driven by my grand tour to the historic Hindustan next spring.

Movies:
I like documentaries and fake-documentaries. Or flat out old school drama, like Lawrence of Arabia, Tunes of Glory, A Man for All Seasons, Man of La Mancha . . . well . . . there seem to be an old school Anglophile twist to it. I also watch a lot of Hong Kong and French gangster movies and Spaghetti Westerns. John Woo, Melville, etc.

Music:
American folk music and classical.

Food:
I'm not picky with food. American, Cantonese, Thai, Japanese, Indian. I'm recently attracted to old school Beijing dishes, like mustard cabbage and pork belly.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, a good commuter bike, books, laptop and good scotch.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where to get dinner, when I should go for my trip to India (should there be a detour to the Punjab? Nepal? Sikkim? Kerala?), Bhagavad Gita.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dinner and drinks with friends. Finishing up the Bhagavad Gita.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The secret buried deep in the heart of the Bhagavad Gita. Just kidding. I'll tell you when I know you.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You know what the Bhagavad Gita is without googling it.