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RedheadCherub

60 / F / straight / Single

Cherry Hill, New Jersey

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
4' 10" (1.47m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Law / Legal Services
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am fairly intellectual, surprisingly sensual, and even-tempered.

My Self-Summary

I am a little Jewish woman who is open to learning new things, both about the world and myself. I have a broad interest in and knowledge of diverse fields, such as biochemistry, instrumental music, journalism, the law, psychology of intangible sales (among other things), insurance, real estate, and finance.

I'd like to meet someone who has an interest in both sciences and the arts, but who is also grounded in reality. It is important to me that this person have a healthy optimism and good outlook on life, be fairly active, financially stable, and interested in a healthy lifestyle without being overly rigid or restrictive.

Like me, I'd find a man attractive if his personal hygiene is top-notch, has a hunger for learning and growing, is a good listener, has a quirky sense of humor, and is gleefully playful.

Oh, and being a great kisser would be marvelous!

What I’m doing with my life

I am drawn to advocating for the less advantaged and have been a para-chaplain for the elderly. I play clarinet in several local community bands, and have enjoyed an interesting and varied career, including marketing for The Philadelphia Orchestra. In the recent past, as a medical insurance biller for a special needs facility, I collected over $2M by appealing insurance companies' initial denials. In my present capacity, I am a medical & commercial insurance collector for a mid-size law firm, where I enjoy negotiating settlements that are equitable, yet profitable to the client.

I’m really good at

Listening. Speaking. In that order. Kissing and more.

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile, genuine interest in others, and my ability to speak to almost anyone.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Favorite pieces of classical music include Scheherezade, Mahler's Second, Mozart Clarinet Concerto (of course!)

Current favorite musical artist is probably Joshua Bell at this time. Stephane Grappelli, Diana Krall, Pavarotti, all faves, in addition to many oldies (50's & 60's). Actually, I like music from the 1930's to 1960's best.

Best movies I enjoyed include: Hunt for Red October, A Fish Called Wanda, As Good as It Gets, The Bourne Identity, Ghandi, Drumline, Star Trek, Sleepless in Seattle, The Open Window, When Harry Met Sally, The Fugitive (original) and Schindler's List, among others.

The six things I could never do without

My family, music, the internet, books, affection, and garlic!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Everything.

On a typical Friday night I am

Looking forward to the evening.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I've been divorced once from an early marriage to my college debate partner and widowed over 13 years from a second marriage to a wonderful gentleman. While I am not unhappy alone, having a companion and partner would increase enjoyment of life exponentially.

Oh, another thing I'll admit to: I can't slow dance. Always played in the band, but I'd love to learn....Hope you have a sense of adventure and steel-toed shoes!

You should message me if

You are kind, gentle, and considerate.
You are willing to help me do dishes after dinner.
You think you can pique my interest and make me laugh.
You know you are a good kisser.