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29 Oxnard, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 10
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm the unexpected looking for the unexpected. Too ambiguous? Keep reading then if curious
I'm an intelligent, fun loving guy who enjoys new and novel activities. I'm not average, as I can ballroom dance, practice archery, while staying stay both active and well read. I like opposites and seek them out. I'm a gentleman, but have no problem calling someone out for bad form, if needed. I don't smoke, don't do drugs, drink occasionally, and more often than not, it's my companion under the table drunk. I think everyone has something interesting to say and if they don't know how to say it, just sound it out. I don't go half-way on anyone or anything.
More specifically, I'm a jock-y nerd with a gaming hobby that plays football regularly & also likes to shoot arrows at distant dots while wondering, "Did I hit that?" I like to play games, play sports, play it up and play along. I go out, go long, go crazy and sometimes I even go for broke. I'm a philosopher and psychologist with a weakness for urban fantasy and professional wrestling. I'm a published writer, a project manager and armchair politician. I have an opinion on everything, with a value on little, but a desire to hear all as I'm an analytical listener, an out-of-the-box thinker and a successful builder of Ikea furniture. I'm a joke-telling, idea selling, overwhelming talker who likes to ask the tough questions and has sometimes been accused of looking like a ginger Jesus.
Still questioning who am I? Well, I'll be happy to tell you when Webster comes up with a word for it. For now, I’ll simply say I'm hard to categorize because I'm a lot of things; I'm unconventional to say the least and believe in going full throttle or going home.
You think you can keep up? Wanna know more? Just ask.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working on building and publishing video games as well as perfecting my disc golf throw. Making my life better one day at a time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hitting circles with pointed sticks launched with string and a bent branch. Recently I've found throwing plastic circles at chains hanging over metal laundry hampers is also fun.

Thinking of weird ways to describe and do everything.

Coming up with amusing headstone ideas:
"Redheadredshirt 1986-2050. And he did it all with a straight face."
"Redheadredshirt 1986-2050. Based on a true story."

P.s. If those didn't make you at least smile, our sense of humor may not click.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My red hair, my expressive eyes... Most people just say I'm hard to ignore. I have 'presence'.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Road Less Traveled, Riverworld, The Dresden Files, as well as all the obligatory LotR, Dune, etc.

Movies: The Usual Suspects, Fight Club, Cube, Up in the Air, Men Who Stare at Goats, The Court Jester

Shows: Castle, Sons of Guns, Mythbusters, WWE programming

Music: Matchbox Twenty, Rev Theory, Natasha St. Pier, Tim Minchin, Brian Scary and the Shredding Tears, Caravan Palace

I'm also a huge fan of old-time radio shows from the 30's and 40's.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Writing materials

(Not necessarily in that order...)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The stories I'm writing, the future, my life's accomplishments and mistakes, how to help my friends...

I like working out how to do things. I'd love to, in my lifetime: Modernize old-time radio, coconuts and all.
Design a video game.
Create a pro gamer theater.
Build a house myself.
Figure out a way to put a G1 hummer on low-rider wheels.
Get a classic Bug and customize it to who I am.
Write and produce a comic.
Take part in professional wrestling in some capacity.
And the list grows every day...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Writing, playing games, or hanging out with my family and/or friends. Dancing or partying.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to know someone both light-hearted but who won't bullshit you, someone who's good at both listening and speaking, or just want a good conversation. I'm an information sponge. Feel free to squeeze me.