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64 La Mesa, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 56-70
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 4, 2014
5' 2" (1.57m)
Body Type
Full figured
Other but it’s not important
Two-year college
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
My self-summary
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Testing the waters again. Let's see if okcupid has someone here for me. I'm a pretty easy going woman. I enjoy casual dinners, meeting for coffee, sitting on the patio watching the sun go down. I like to spend time with friends. I have a good sense of humor and like men who also have one. I am attracted to men who are intelligent, comfortable in their own skin and kind. I have fun trying new things, so surprise me.
What I’m doing with my life
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Learning how to fit all the bucket list things into my life. Having worked for 30+ years for the U.S. Government and now retired,, I'm loving the opportunities out there.
I’m really good at
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Listening, organization, laughing (often at myself), loving, nurturing, caring.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People usually comment on my eyes and my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Haven't read anything lately, but I enjoy mysteries and thought-provoking books. I enjoy jazz, blues, oldies (50s, 60s), classical music. I like trying different kinds of food. Never have acquired a taste for sushi though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, Laughter, Family, Passion, Toothbrush, Coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I'm going to try next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Often ushering at a local live theater (Old Globe, Lyceum, Cgynet, etc). Otherwise, having dinner with friends or just relaxing at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If it's private, why would I tell you? :) If I get to know you, I am very open and honest about most anything you'd like to know.
You should message me if
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