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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:12am
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body type
Not at all
Cancer, and it matters a lot
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Dutch (Okay), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am Tom. I speak English & ook Nederlands. Speaking of speaking, I'm a reasonably quiet guy who prefers listening.

Music motivates me. I might love only one song from a band - or many. It depends. It's all about the sound experience for me.

I've taken all sorts of tests on this site and the results seem to be quite accurate! They say a lot about me, so if you're interested by all means check them out! I've put quite some thought into them so at the time of taking each one they would have been very accurate.

Some things I'm looking for in a woman: intelligence, open-mindedness, longish to long hair, Caucasian. Also, if your star sign is Pisces, Scorpio, Taurus or Virgo that'd be a bonus. Please, no Aries.

That's a little taste of me and my preferences but you'll have to persuade me to tell you more...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently training with a personal trainer to improve my javelin throwing skill(technique, fitness and general muscle building). I think I have a real shot at being national champion and perhaps even compete at the Olympics later on.

Interested in doing archaeology or a similar kind of study later on - maybe even something with computers(though I'd prefer something less virtual) to pass the time and fill the wallet.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
That depends who you compare it to, but I like to think that I can be good at a lot of things!
The first things people usually notice about me
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Quiet, tall(maybe not so much where I live), calm. I don't really ask people or get any obvious reactions but those seem like pretty safe bets.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Foods: Pizza(and other bread-like things), all the unhealthy stuff kids like, simple foods(currently on a proper and professional type of diet)
Movies: 300(but really anything from Zack Snyder), Underworld movies, Hot Fuzz, everything from Darren Aronofsky(yeah I've got a soft and squishy side too) and a lot of others though if I had to write a list it'd probably take several years
TV: The Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, Family Guy, Primeval, Lost, Life On Mars, Ashes to Ashes and probably more - other than a few series I don't watch much TV though
Music: no bands in particular, more so just many many songs from all sorts of bands and genres - I like, and dislike, a whole lot of songs
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My sanity, being alive, bed, family, H2O and perhaps something else.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Too much? Too little? I don't have the faintest idea...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sleeping, watching movies or playing games... or playing a game inside a movie while I'm sleeping.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I tend to frown when drinking...
You should message me if
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- You want to meet up, chat, email etc.
- You don't expect me to be like every guy out there
- You're not secretly a guy
- You exist
- You're human
- You are amazing