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27 Austin, TX Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21-30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:22am
Native American, White
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Christianity and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I regret not choosing a wittier username.

I'm just a big kid who was forced into growing up. Now, don't mistake that for saying that I'm immature--I have a full time job, a car, a master's degree--but I've still got my head in the clouds searching (in vain?) for something more to life. I can be as goofy or as serious as the situation calls for, but I like to make those I'm with feel nice.

Update: I'm wanting to get out and explore more. I'd love to go on adventures either around Austin other urban areas (urban exploration, anyone?!) or get back to nature and do some hiking or camping. Unfortunately my group of friends typically prefer to stay inside, which is great and all, but I'm wanting to branch out (ha! Because nature and...ugh, I'll see myself out) more. If you want an adventuring partner, feel free to drop me a line!

Also, I now totally understand why everyone says that trying to write a self-summary is pretty damn hard. Trying to encapsulate your personality and how you interact with others in a bite-sized blurb seems either difficult or...dissociative, like I'm writing about someone else entirely just because I'm trying to be objective. I also probably shouldn't try to write about myself when I'm exhausted, haha.

Note: I'm not as boring as my profile makes me seem :(
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm working as a Rehabilitation Specialist for people on parole. My username pretty much shows how having a "big boy" job has drained what was left of my creativity.

Also, I've got a Master's in Counseling, so that's pretty neat. Edit: I'm now working on collecting clinical hours to get my license to counsel. Watch out, I'll be like James Bond...except that, instead of killing, I can talk about feelings and junk.

Update: I am now a licensed professional counselor. So, that's neater than the above statement.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, I'd like to think--I'd be pretty bad at my job if I'm lying to myself. I also like to pretend I'm not half bad at writing, even though I don't do that much these days.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair and my goatee flapping majestically in the gentle Texas breeze.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I don't have much time to read for fun anymore, but I tend to prefer horror or fantasy for fiction, and theology, mysticism, and therapy-related books for non-fiction.

Movies: I'm a horror nut. That being said, I'll watch just about anything as long as I feel I can connect with the characters or the storyline. Comedy, action, thrillers, etc.

Music: Metal. I mean, I can tolerate most anything, but I definitely prefer metal and rock music.

Food: I can find something to eat most anywhere I go, lol. I don't really have a preference.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Physiological needs being met (food, water, air, etc.)
2. Safety needs being met (shelter, access to resources, etc.)
3. Love and belonging
4. Self-esteem, confidence, and respect
5. Self-actualization
6. Pyramid diagrams
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I would do if I spontaneously developed superpowers; what I would do in the zombie apocalypse; who would win in a match, Harry Potter or Harry Dresden; what kind of world I would create if I were God; whether objective morality exists; whether life has inherent meaning; what I'm going to eat after dinner; whether the cute girl at work or at Starbucks thinks I'm cute.

Also about work and junk. I can go from escapist fantasies to boring, mundane crap in a second.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Right now, I'm decompressing after dealing with a week's worth of clients and progress notes and deadlines. I'm trying to get a Dungeons and Dragons (Pathfinder, if you want to be technical) group together soon. I'm the life of the party, I tells you what.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've had pigtails on more than one occasion.

Yes, I did look adorable.
You should message me if
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For anything, really. I'm always looking to talk to new people and try out some new things.

So, apparently OkCupid thinks I have terrible manners. That is bananas; my manners are lovely.