Note to all....I have met someone very special. Right here on OKC! So, I won't be responding to emails...but thanks for stopping by.

I'm a down to earth Taurus, looking for someone to share life's simple pleasures with. I'm passionate about cooking, especially Pakistani/Indian food! Reading, word games of all kinds (I'm talkin' serious scrabble here...), movies,Red Sox, and hosting family get-togethers would be a starter list of interests. Music is a big part of my life; I love most kinds, (light on the rap and country, please!) and enjoy concert going. I have two great kids who are in college, and they do drop in when they have time. I enjoy fine dining, a glass of wine, and all the comforts of a beautiful living environment.
I have an interesting sense of humor, and to me, having a good laugh is one of life's necessities. I'm a homebody who likes to keep busy, and help out my family when needed. I practice Reiki for myself, friends and family on a regular basis, and love to do this small thing for them. I also like going to flea markets and yard sales...you never know what treasure you will find! It's a whole philosophy there... you have to sift through tons of soil to find a diamond...

I'm looking for a man who knows what he wants in life, is sincere and caring, and willing to work to keep the romance alive! Someone who enjoys doing what I like to do, but also has his own interests, and respects that in me. Quality time should be just that...

I've just returned to the US after a long time abroad; I'm starting over from scratch. I'm working on a certificate course at college to begin a new career, and looking for the perfect job in the meantime, like many other people in this economy! I miss my longtime friends, but am looking to meet new people here.

cooking for large groups!

My sense of humor and my eyes. At least that's what I've been told...

I love to read. Crime, law, and detective novels, sweeping sagas (think: The Thornbirds, Far Pavilions) are among my favorites, but I also read classic literature and non-fiction. Robert B. Parker, Ken Follet, Patricia Cornwell and Amy Tan come to mind, and good autobiographies. I love to curl up and watch a good movie, or go to the theater. No horror movies, but I enjoy quirky comedies and gripping dramas alike. Last few I saw: Harry Potter, Julie and Julia...I love Hollywood musicals too! A few favorites are West Side Story, Rear Window, Young Frankenstein, Fever Pitch, 50 First Dates, Edward Scissorhands, 10 Things I Hate About You...the list could go on...
Music is an important part of my life. A small list of favorites would include Joni Mitchell, Eric Clapton, Bonnie Raitt, Stevie Wonder, Alanis Morisette, Leo Kottke...good jazz, R&B and classical as well. I have quite a diverse collection on my iPod. I also enjoy my kids' music, and Incubus is one of my favorites. I took my daughter to see them at The Dubai Desert Rock Festival a few years ago!
I love company in the kitchen, and especially enjoy authentic Pakistani/Indian food.
Oh, and if you're a Yankees fan, please don't bother! (Hardcore Red Sox fan, here...)

Books
Music
Intimacy
Time with my kids
Comfortable surroundings
A good laugh

how to improve my life, and being grateful for all I have. I do believe in the power of positive thought, and actively working to make things happen.

watching the Red Sox, reading a good book, or chatting with friends around the globe.

That I'm really 48, I don't know how it got to be 46 at the top!!

If you have a great sense of humor, value integrity, and are honest and caring... Chemistry is important, but so is getting to know someone. I am asking for a lot in a partner, and expect that they will too. I have a lot to give, and want the respect, kindness and admiration that I will give to the right person.