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RelaxLove

40 / M / Gay / Single

New York, New York

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)

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I am devious, sweet, and giggly.

My Self-Summary

I'm smart, funny, cheerful (mostly), affectionate, and I love to listen. I'm also a multi-published children's author. Since I read (and consume all media) voraciously, I have lots of little facts, quotes, and pop culture references spewing out constantly . . . along with the occasional original idea. I'm a surprisingly good guy.

What I’m doing with my life

Writing and editing children's books and hooking up with hot guys while waiting for one of my books to be my big breakthrough and one of the guys to marry me.

I’m really good at

Writing, sex, watching TV]], annoying people, remembering media trivia, reading, making sarcastic jokes, being manipulative, paranoid, suspicious, and cheerful, and listening.

The first things people usually notice about me

That I somehow look both sinister and innocent.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

The six things I could never do without

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Sex, children's books, personal acheivements and failures, American Idol, work, cats, interesting boys, my friends, odd plotlines, silibant phrases, all the dumb crap I've got to do

On a typical Friday night I am

Cruising, either online or in a bar

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I would like to settle down with a guy I love and have a family, even if it's just the two of us

You should message me if

This profile does not horrify you but rather turns you on.