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RelaxLove

44 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Men who like men
  • Ages 37–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:27pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I do my best to be a good guy. I can be introverted, intellectual, and introspective, although I'm also happy to be social and friendly and hit the town, the bars, the beach, or the woods sometimes. I love books, movies, TV, and conversation -- anything with a story, really. I'd love to find someone attractive and smart who I can relate to, share life with, and amuse. Humor is key . . . but so is an endless curiosity about the world.
What I’m doing with my life
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Writing lots of children's books. Basically my goal is to find out how many I can get published before I die.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, reading, editing, watching TV, remembering, having sudden bursts of insight, listening, fixing things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People generally don't notice me at first, but then may spot my green eyes and smile; or realize that I'm saying something horribly inappropriate, if funny.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Cat's Eye, Poisonwood Bible, Me Talk Pretty One Day, Jitterbug Perfume, Lolita, Harry Potter, etc.

Room with a View, Polyester, Little Mermaid, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Chicago, Topsy-Turvy, The Queen, Up!, All about My Mother, Volver, Bad Education, Spirited Away, Aliens, etc.

Mad Men, Top Chef, Project Runway, Louie, 30 Rock, RuPaul's Drag Race, Shameless, Walking Dead, etc.

New Order, Pet Shop Boys, The Smiths, Flaming Lips, Radiohead, Sinead O'Connor, Madonna, LCD Soundsystem, etc.

Cheese, meat, nuts, etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Cats
Laughter
Sex
Music
Conversation
Books (in physical or electronic form)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Children's books, personal achievements and failures, work, sex, cats, interesting guys, fixing up my apartment, my friends, odd plotlines, sibilant phrases.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either working on a project, watching movies, or hanging out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I would like to settle down with a guy I love and have a family, even if it's just the two of us.
You should message me if
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You can imagine us together.