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RenetaScian

34 Denver, CO Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 3
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Retired
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
(Profile updated 24 August 2012)
"Vigorus omnia enim res, et discere cum vive adversitatum" -Self (language Latin)

Words... I can't say how much I love using them and smithing (gotta love autocorrect, tried to change to "Smiting" LOL) them into things to closely as possible resemble how I feel and how I see the world. I'm polyamorous, transsexual, queer, gender-fluid though primarily transfeminine and into seeking committed to semi-committed partnerships. Generally speaking, I don't have sex with people I don't know, don't trust. Essentially, I've spent time exploring my poly side, found poly relationships, and want some partners that are more local. I have one so far. I tend to go for more emotional commitment with my partners, because emotions drive my sexual side. Just how I am.

I am enjoy being around people who defy conventions of sexuality and gender given by our culture, as well as those who redefine those things through their bodies and expressions. I don't like stereotypes. Your gender is what you make of it. I am a philosopher, writer, musician, artist, and a creative soul. My mind is like a furnace constantly making new things. That is the path I'll forge into the world from now on.

The kind of person I am going to be happy with has to know me, the whole real me in order for it to work. I am a walking contradiction, being both emotional and logical, abstract but somehow through it being strangely able to be practical too. I am also a disabled veteran, which I felt it was important for people to know.

I am an artist, a lover, empathic, cat-like, vampire-like, playful, cuddly, and gentle spirit
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm working towards creating things (art, books, blogs, thoughts, ideas, inventions) for a living. I want to create things, and make beautiful, deep, thought provoking things for others to enjoy, as well as myself. I would like to see the world become a better place in through nothing else than my creations. My art is beautiful, and some of them are inventions.

I am currently working on writing a book. You can also check out my renetascian deviantart profile, or renetaxian wordpress blog.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Art, cooking, and general things that come with being a very creative, passionate and empathetic person. I don't act on my empathic, caring nature in the same way with everyone, but I am generally there for me friends and family, and care very much about them.

I am also good at introspection, philosophy, and logically or emotionally dissecting things to understand them. Like when it comes to issues relating to oversimplified or outright false cultural dogmas (gender binary, heteronormativity, cissexism, heterosexism, mononormativity).

That said, I'm always keen for a good debate, political or otherwise. But if you try to proselytize me I'll send you running away with your tail between your legs. And no, that's not a challenge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My quirky facial expressions, my eyes, my lips or a combination. I'd also say that people notice warmth in my expressions, and some people have told me I have a sexy voice, though I still don't know why or how. I am often counter to what people are expecting, and just plain quirky.

I also don't deal well with, or put up with bigotry. Who should have to put up with that?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Pretty much any book that makes you think about the nature of the universe. Breakfast of Champions, Runaway Jury, and well stories that I write... I know that sounds weird, but.

Movies: The Man From Earth, Seeking Friend for the End of the World, Serenity, What Dreams May Come, The never-ending story (I know, Nerdy), The Sorcerers Apprentice, Armageddon, Super Hero/Heroine Flix, Ah! My Goddess, Howls Moving Castle, and others.

TV Shows: Firefly, Ah! My Goddess, Kiddy Grade, Warehouse 13, Teen Wolf TV(2011), Kyle XY, X-Files, X'amd: The lost memory, Blood+, Star Trek, Reading Rainbow, Bill Nye the Science Guy, tonnes of anime, and many others.

Music: VNV Nation, Assemblage 23, Celldweller, Pearl Jam, Pink Floyd, Queen, Scissor Sisters, The Darkness, Kylee, Utada, Hyde, Linkin Park, Enya, HIM, Fuel, Dream Theater, Nirgilis, 3 Days Grace, Blue Stahli (Voxis), D'espairs Ray, A perfect circle, Boom Boom Satellites, Breaking Benjamin, Chevelle, Chicago (some of the classic love songs), Colony 5, Crowded House, The Cranberries, Dishwalla, Enigma, Erasure, Eve 6, and many hundreds more...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Video games (or a viable substitute)
Family and Friends (whether they be by blood or not)
Human touch (either giving or receiving)
Herbs (For cooking)
Drawing Supplies (Things that can be used to create art)
Love (kind goes hand in hand with the above touch)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about companionship, relationships, love, and such things quite a bit in my life. I'm a very amorous person, and I love giving and receiving affection. I am something of a romantic. I hate to say it, but I have "seasons". Fall and Spring to be specific when I feel more "romantic". I also think about the nature of the will of the universe.

I think about science and technology a lot, and generally about ways to make the world better. I have a wild imagination, and my dreams are extremely vivid by average standards. I also occasionally have romantic daydreams when I am so inclined. I don't think about sex very often if at all, unless the right person gives me reason too.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing FFXIV, or PSO 2 or Minecraft (w/shaders and HD textures). I could be drawing, or enjoying time with special people, groups, couples, or solos, maybe hanging out with just some friends. I don't really have a typical day, and every day I'm retired so Friday doesn't have any particular significance for me... Otherwise I am blogging, reading the encyclopedia, reading stuff on-line, reading social justice blogs (commenting too), writing books, talking with friends (sometimes consoling them), advocating for change in our world, or watching anime. Usually Video Games, Anime, and Daydreaming are at the top of the list while dating or single. It all depends on how much the partners I have and what they're doing. Most of them play MMOs, so I do that a lot.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I often click favorites or rate high on people who I am interested in, but I don't always message unless I see mutual interest, AKA saving my profile as well. Much of that is because I am shy, and partly because of being trans, and I am looking for people who are okay with that. I guess being rejected for being trans kind of weighs on my mind, so that is a part of it. I am also fine with people being interested in me who don't live near by, I keep myself open to finding love anywhere. I am shy, and open, so I find that when it comes relationships I take that into account. I prefer mutual interest.

Also, I am totally okay with answering questions about my transition but I will not post that in my profile. Ask if I'm willing to answer questions first, and make sure you let me know if some of the questions will be invasive. Most of the time I'm kosher, just don't assume I am. That's kind of within the realm of this because it's upsetting when people don't use tact around that matter, especially since if given respected in that regards I am willing to tell everything. Well, that isn't terribly secret for people who know about trans people and gender dysphoria, but it seems like people have no clue how upsetting it can be when people walk all over that.

I'm not an educator, and I will help people understand when I'm in the mood. Just don't assume I'm in the mood to acquaint you with trans experience right off the bat. If I warm up to you, I'll tell you everything.
You should message me if
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...you're totally awesome poly, or poly-accepting.
...you are an amazingly queer person who is trans friendly.
...you are an awesome non-binary/genderqueer/genderfuck person.
...you treat me as a person. I don't care if you treat me in the socially attributed way people treat women or not. Just treat me like a person and respect my identity.
...you think I am cute and want to date me, or have sex with me (so long as you're looking for a committal friendly relationship, serious or not).
...you want to be a good friend and hang out with me.
...you want to cuddle up with me and be close to me in the hopes of making me your partner.
...you want to give your best wishes.
...you like me and respect my gender as is.
...you'd like to be with a woman who understands herself.
...you don't mind your women being shy, but confident in themselves (and also a little kinky once you get me alone).
...you like liberal independent thinkers, or people who use reason to sort out the nature of the world.
...you like or respect atheists.
...you like science and want to talk about rad sciency shit.
...you want to take over the world with me (Just kidding... sort of... SHHHH, it's a secret. Helping me build the secret base is included in this. Don't tell anyone.)

You should not message me if...

...you are transphobic or homophobic.
...you have an issue with "trans bodies".
...you are racist, sexist, fat-phobic, misogynistic, femmephobic, hateful of polyamory, prolytizingly religious, et cetera. (I don't tolerate prejudice, period. If you are willing to listen, and reevaluate I might give you a parole period to figure it out. I'm not hear to school you about how not to be an asshat, so don't expect me to)
...you are seeking "The best of both worlds", which I am not.
...you want a fling (not that I'm anti- I just want more emotionally committed partners/lovers).
...you want to experiment with me because I am trans.
...your only reason for messaging me is out of having a fetish for transsexuals.
...you want to bash me, insult me, or talk bad about GLBTQ+, poly, or other sexual or gender minority people.
...you are a troll. (Outside of those cute little key chains from the 90s, however it is unlikely one of them would be messaging me.)
...you don't respect my gender as is.
... if it's your intention to convert or change me.