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33 M Asheville, NC

My Details

Last Online
Jun 17
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and very serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English, Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Postcapitalist, technosocialist, antitheistic geek nihilist.

To answer the most banal of the "getting to know you" questions, I'm a respiratory therapist at a 200+ bed community hospital where I get to take care of all types of patients from newborns to geriatric. I really enjoy my job! I plan to finish my BS in biology and then reevaluate whether I want to continue on to PA or med school down the road.

I'm a giant geek. I love tabletop roleplaying games in particular, and have been playing as regularly as I can since just after high school. AD&D 2nd edition was my jam for years, although these days my tastes run wider than high fantasy. I also love board games. Not of the Monopoly variety, more along the lines of Eclipse, Lords of Waterdeep, Manhattan Project, and other Ameritrash and Eurogames. I can play a quick card or minis game here and there, but they don't hold my interests for long.

Video games, yes! I'm primarily a PC gamer. My Steam account is a little ridiculous. :-) Some favorite games and series include Mass Effect (although 3 sucked), Sleeping Dogs, Tropico, the Fallout series, and lots more. I don't own a console at the moment, but I have nothing against them.

I'm also a musician, and I love to sing. I've played drums since I was about two or three years old, though I don't play much these days, and I have dabbled in guitar (mostly so I have something to sing over) since my teenage years.

Like to go backpacking and car camping. Like to day hike. Like to be on the river kayaking lazily while consuming beers. I play golf here and there. I enjoy exercise but don't do nearly enough of it at the moment, ha. Planning to get back into paintball this year. Wanna come get shot at with me?

I really, really like standup comedy and live jazz. A lot.

I love all kinds of food. About the only things I won't eat are organ meats. Ew. Oh, also not into octopus, jellyfish, and a few other seafoods. I love sushi though. Favorites include Thai, Korean, Ethiopian, and Japanese. I enjoy a drink or two, and I'm equally happy with a good beer or glass of wine as I am a well made cocktail or glass of bourbon. (As an aside, I'm a hobbyist mixologist and keep a bar at home.)

I don't smoke or do any drugs, and don't really enjoy being around those that are. I'm pro-legalization, I just don't care for the scene or the culture that typically accompanies substances and their use. If you use drugs, nothing personal but we probably wouldn't work out.

I like smart, kinky people. Let's explore together.

I'm looking for a lasting relationship, but I'm realistic and understand that a relationship begins as a tentative exploration. Hopefully if you've read this far your curiosity is piqued and you have similar thoughts.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working a lot at the hospital as a respiratory therapist. Gotta pay the bills. :)

I'm also gearing up for spring and summer! I can't wait to do some hiking, backpacking, paintballing, kayaking, and the ever popular "sitting outside of a brewery drinking beer and hanging out with people."

I'm planning on finishing my BS in biology to keep my future doors open to PA or med school in case I decide I want to torture myself some more.
I’m really good at
TV marathons, listening, talking, learning, cooking, teaching, video game marathons, playing the drums, singing, being a cool uncle.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told that it's my smile. Also, I'm likely the one striking up random conversations wherever I go.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
- Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep
- The Dark Tower series
- World War Z
- Robocalypse
- tons more.

- LOVE 80s action movies. Robocop=awesome.
- Momento
- Snatch
- Fight Club
- Arlington Road
- the recent Marvel Studios movies
-also...tons more.

- Doctor Who
- Sherlock
- Bones
- Firefly
- Cowboy Bebop
- House
- Suits
- White Collar
- Breaking Bad
- The Wire
- Family Guy
- Burn Notice
- Scrubs
- Jericho
- Alcatraz (fuck you network for cancelling this)
- more...

- Not any country made after around 1985-90
- Not a huge rap fan but love indie hiphop
- Hate 99.99% of anything that pop/top 40 stations play
- Good with most everything else
all over the place. You'll just have to look at my library.

- Ethiopian, Chinese, Thai, Japanese (sushi especially), Pho, WAFFLES OMG ALL BREAKFAST FOODS
The six things I could never do without
A gaming PC, geek culture, my friends, alone time, good food and drink, my health.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How ridiculously far we lag behind technology in terms of what is possible and what we should be doing with it. The fact that I have to physically drive my car in 2014 is ridiculous.

The enormity of oblivion, and how we as humans should be working together to defeat it. Transhuman and posthuman issues.

How our economies and ideas of value and wealth are anti-humanity and anti-well being. How we could move beyond the greed of the few to a more equitable society that values people and not currency or status.
On a typical Friday night I am
Is there a way to answer this without sounding like either the most boring person in the world or a frivolous teenager struggling to sound "cool?"
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a domestic goddess in the body of an early-30s man. I cook and clean like a boss. I own aprons.

Seriously though, I'm not a person with many secrets.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You would like to!

Tell you what, though. Bonus points are yours if any of the following apply:

- You actually play video games.
- You actually play roleplaying games.
- You like to play board games, and I don't mean just Monopoly.
- You are a Whovian (newWho especially; if you don't agree that Tennant is the best Doctor we may have issues!).
- You're into going to cons (Gencon, Fear the Con, [Insert]con).
- You are a giant geek.
- You answered yes after laughing maniacally at the question asking if you own any dice with more than six sides.
- You are a kinky she-devil that's comfy with herself and likes to do pretty much everything. (I just typed that sentence. I'm going to go sit and think about what I've done.)
- You are awesome.