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Geek/musician and just trying to take a peek out here to see what's
kickin'... I swear I could be totally butch if I wanted to (but all
my more butchly friends laugh at me). I'm kind of terminally femme,
but I'm someone's mama so be assured, I can go all hell hath no
fury if the situation called for it. Usually doesn't, but y'know..
NOT really interested in talking to guys at present. Sorry. Bout to
go into CAPS MODE, so apologies. GUYS STOP MESSAGING ME. ARE YOU A
GUY? THEN DON'T MESSAGE ME. YOU ARE NOT GOING TO CHANGE MY MIND ON
THIS. YOU ARE NOT GOING TO BE THE ONE DUDE WHO I JUST HAVE TO TALK
TO. DO YOU IDENTIFY AS MALE AND YOU WERE BORN WITH A PENIS? YES?
OKAY. DON'T MESSAGE ME.
At any rate, I am NOT outdoorsy or athletic by a lot of peoples'
standards, but I like to go fishing and I love the ocean (just not
extreme beach sports.. look at me.. I'm fluffy and pale. I'm gonna
fry in that mess). I do like hiking around and enjoying nature, but
I don't consider it really enjoyable at any sort of measureable
MPH. At that point, its kind of a blur.
I am excellent with computers, the internet is my backyard. Don't
judge. I like the mental freedom found there, where I can go read
and see whatever I damn well please. Its where I work, too.
I am also the leader of a very strong clan in a huge MMORPG (NOT
WORLD OF WARCRAFT). If you like geeky, I don't think it gets much
geekier than that.
I love to go out with the person I am with. Granted, I have a child
and that's not always the easiest thing to do with a little one,
but when possible I really enjoy it. I like all kind of different
foods, and I enjoy drinks out. I would love to meet someone who
shares my interest in liquoers and interesting alcohols/drinks, but
who isn't an alcoholic at the same time. I don't drink often, but I
have a fascination with interesting drinks. I love to cook and
bake. If you want to try it, I'd be happy to cook it for you. I
also sing.. as in, went to college for it and have done so
professionally before. I have also been very involved in musical
theatre and would love to be involved in music again sometime soon.
Took a lil baby/toddler hiatus, but would love to get singing again
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Looking for the next new idea to take over and run the world with.
I have a little girl who gets most of my attention at all times,
but even mamas need a break from time to time. I work mostly at
home and am only temporarily living where I am (Missouri) and
working to move back home (South Carolina/CSRA).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Singing, meeting new people, always having something interesting to
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair, that the ungodly racket actually DID come from that one
woman over there, or the boobs that round the corner a little
before the rest of me does, shortly followed by the hair and the
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Good Omens (Gaiman/Pratchett), all of Max Brooks'
Korean horror/thriller films, I'm a HUGE Chan Wook Park fan. I like
psychological thrillers more than horror films, but I tend to watch
both for the occasional chance of overlap.
best not get into music.. my interests are too all over the map. We
can talk about that later.
Thing is, I've read a lot. I READ a lot. I try to do a good bit of
reading on what's current in feminist circles and maintain my place
as part of the infamous liberal agenda. I just don't wanna have a
"whose dick is bigger" contest regarding my literacy, like I see on
a lot of profiles. I mean, its nice if we read the same books or
what not, but we could both have interpreted the same stuff totally
differently, and I don't consider them like, a badge.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sex (what, am I supposed to LIE?)
Something to accomplish
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What kind of woman I am teaching my little girl to be, who I am and
what I want, world domination, best ways to be good for my friends.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably home and geeking out. Anyone have any alternate plans I
could weasel in on?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I might have you figured out a lot faster than I would have any
reason or right to. I'm weird like that. That doesn't mean I won't
like you or that I'm looking for a reason to dislike or discredit
you. But its just.. eh.. a thing. That, and I got a real soft spot
for a soft butch.
You should message me if
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You want to have an actual correspondence/conversation. You
actually enjoy talking to people. You're not trying to rush me over
to your apartment/house (cause it's not gonna go down that way,
sorry). You consider yourself butch, but my lack of interest in
being super outdoorsy/athletic, football (or other major sports),
mudboggin (dont like mud in particular), motorcycles/cars, or
country music is going to be a dealbreaker for you.
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