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26 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last Online
Online now!
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Italian (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I try to balance most things in my life appropriately. I consider myself almost an equal split of extrovert, and introvert, although I express many more extrovert tendencies.

Nothing is more important than to challenge myself constantly, whether learning a new hobby, trying a new sport/exercise, or studying new material.

I love meeting new people, especially ones with different points of view, and I collect new experiences, and conversations with the sort of awe and appreciation normally reserved for special occasions.
What I’m doing with my life
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Bartending in NYC while I study to become a Sommelier (watch Somm), working towards my own consulting brand, and potentially owning my own place.

Keeping busy with studying (currently Italian, wine, mixology, and any other online classes I can get my hands on!), getting back into shape, just finished a 5k training program, starting a 10k one next!

Always writing, drawing, and playing music.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.

Also being a huge nerd.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My resemblance to a Grizzly Bear and possibly how excited I am, if I'm doing something I love.

I also get a lot of comments on how curly my hair is.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Currently reading Foundation, and bar books/cocktail & wine references. Just finished; The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, The Time Machine, and God Bless You Mr Rosewater.

Candide, House of Leaves, The Dark Towers, Catch-22, Ishmael, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close, 1984, Dune, Enders Game and the Worthing Saga are some of my favorites.

Movies include American Hustle, Her, Synecdoche, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Truman Show, 500 Days of Summer, the Science of Sleep, Se7en, Momento, Eraserhead, Magnolia, Boogie Nights, Paprika, Annie Hall. These area very few of my favorites.

I love Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, Dexter, House, The Walking Dead and Arrested Development.

I'm currently cultivating a love for Hip-Hop. Kendrick Lamar is my favorite right now. Outkast, Biggie, and Wu-Tang have made the list so far. Traditionally more Indie-Rock and Folk. I still plan on marrying Joanna Newsome.

I love cooking and good food. LITERALLY EVERYTHING.

(did you know that the webster dictionary changed the definition of literally, so that now it literally means, literal, and not literally?)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good food & wine.
Great company.
Some sort of creative outlet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Food, Cocktails, and the fifth dimension.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?

Service industry yo.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've never seen the goonies or sandlot in their entirety.
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You have a recommendation for me, city, book or music related especially, or if you'll trade books with me. Bonus points for reading dates.

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