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49 • Allston, MA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 35–55
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 1:16am
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Agnosticism, and laughing about it
- Dropped out of space camp
- Rather not say
- Doesn’t have kids
People like me. I'm fun and funny and a good friend.
I love to hear and tell stories. If something in my life doesn't kill me and it makes for a good story that I can tell around cocktails later on then it has been a worthwhile event.
Since my divorce over 3 years ago I have discovered that I can survive and thrive on my own - but I love having fun interesting and caring people in my life.
I have built up a wealth of friends of all ages that are the best thing in my life. We take turns throwing parties and get togethers and I don't know what I would do with out them.
I like traveling, riding my bike, juggling, reading, movies, music, plays, doing stuff and seeing stuff. All the usual stuff.
I was once arrested with Martin Sheen and once took Punky Brewster to Magic Mountain (at the time she told me I looked like Weird Al). And the drummer from U2 once crashed on my sleeper-sofa.
Lived in Arizona for 12 years before moving back to Boston. Spent 5 years working with kids and now have a career in IT.
Politics - a open minded (I hope) moderate liberal. My two most passionate causes are (1) pro gay-marriage (2) pro universal health care.
I've realized the benefits of a more (but not completely) minimalist lifestyle. Still a work in progress.
I am both extremely outgoing AND at times painfully shy. When I'm with friends and people who I feel safe and accepted around I can be the life of the party...yet I will admit to being a bit shy and nervous in new social situations. But I recognize this and try and put myself out there socially when I can - even when at the edge of my comfort zone.
I'm also still trying to figure out dating. I'm getting better at it I think.
Books. I read both fiction and non-fiction. If it makes me think and has characters that I can care about then it almost doesn't matter what the genre.
Movies - (see books). Among my fave movies are "Silence of the Lambs", "It's a Wonderful Life", "Schindlers List" and "Back to the Future".
2 - Utilities (gas/water/electric)
3 - Stories
4 - My various devises that keep me informed, entertained and connected
5 - Beverages (beer, coffee)
6 - You (OK, that was a bit hokie I admit, but it made you smile)
Or I am at home alone reading or trying to organize my life
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