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41 Omaha, NE Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 11
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Has a kid
Has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
OK, first thing to mention here - I'm a dad and still struggling to balance baby and other priorities. Baby pretty much always wins. I love to meet new people but scheduling is a challenge.

I'm new to Omaha; just moved here for work. I'm working full time, going to school full time, unpacking, and trying to find some time to spend with my daughter. In other words, my availability is pretty low until January.

I’m a kinky vanilla, queer hetero, political, apathetic, radical pragmatic, hardworking slacker, redneck geek (but not the sideshow kind). I may not be consistent, but I try to be principled.

I enjoy many kinds of gaming that involve real people in the same room, not faceless opponents a continent away. I enjoy film, theater, and books, and talking about all three. I enjoy quiet gatherings, but will occasionally go out to the bars (I especially enjoy karaoke and pub quiz), and I like to get up to the mountains. I don't do enough of that last, but I'm working on it.

I’m married and poly, and interested in expanding my circle of friends, lovers, and fellow travelers with whom to take in the vast and surreal spectacle that is life. My wife Gunpowder_Rose and girlfriend pagani27 are on here as well.

What’s with the nick, you ask? I’m ordained in the Universal Life Church, an outfit that I respect for their policy of ordaining anyone regardless of qualifications or even faith. This is how religion ought to be – home-grown and personal, not hierarchical and calcified.

I am thoughtful, easygoing, and genuine
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
That's a good question. I'm currently working at an administrative type job, going back to college for another degree, meeting new friends, and spending time with old ones. I’m trying to get less political in my conversation and more so in my actions. I have a three year old, so don't expect a lot of free time this year.

I try to find time for fun stuff, and I am thinking about trying my hand at cross-country skiing this winter.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a jack of all trades and master of none, but a few things I think I know how to do at least slightly better than average are handyman stuff, prose writing, arithmetic, and picking media products apart until there’s nothing left but memetic chum.

I like to think I'm a good gamer – I learn quickly, keep my fellows entertained, and exercise good sportsmanship.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes; hazel that ranges from smart to warm to passionate, depending on the moment. Or my beloved fish print shirt.

But I figure you’re asking about personality, not appearance. When I'm in the right mood, people notice my sparkling wit and confidence. Other times, I am more reserved; more of a watcher than a doer. At least, until the right person approaches me to bring me out of my shell.

I’m trying to be that first one as often as I can.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
No matter what I put here, I’ll forget some of my favorites, but here goes:
Books: The Baroque Cycle, The Invisibles, Guns, Germs, and Steel, Freakonomics, Transmetropolitan, Sex at Dawn.
Movies: Rancho Deluxe, Metropolitan, My Dinner With Andre, The Princess Bride, Brazil, Secretary, The Life of Brian, Cronenberg’s Crash, Big Trouble in Little China, John Dies at the End, Fantastic Mr. Fox. I moved from Denver, where I fell in love with Alamo Drafthouse – I'm looking forward to going again when they open up here.
Music: The Refreshments, Dr. Hook and the Medicine Show, Richard Cheese, Nouvelle Vague, Leonard Cohen, John Prine, Little Feat, Mojo Nixon.
Food: I like it all, and rather too much. I suppose a few favorites are spaghetti with clam sauce, good backyard charcoal-grill burgers, and fresh apples.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
It seems everyone either answers by talking about relationships or listing basic physical needs like air, water, and food (and basic emotional needs like conversation and sex). I'll be honest - when I do this either the list is way to short or way too long, depending on how I do it. It's a work in progress; updates to arrive later.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Politics, philosophy, economics, culture, history, religion. Not that I'm an expert in any of those – think of those conversations we had as 20-year-old university dilettantes.

Things I need to do, things I still want to experience.

Lately thinking about how awesome maker culture is; I'm not a maker, but I could easily become a maker groupie/assistant. Looking forward to check out Omaha's makerspace.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending time with my child, working on the house, going to some arthouse flick, to the bar to sing karaoke with my friends, or hanging out playing You Don't Know Jack or Chez Geek with those same friends. Or going to sleep early so I can work or play all day Saturday.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. are a geek, and proud of it. You know what you like, instead of waiting for the TV, radio, and newspapers to tell you. You can appreciate high as well as low culture, and can see the importance and the fun in both. You believe heated disagreements and hot sex are not mutually exclusive. Or, if any of my hobbies or interests sound interesting to you.

If you want to play some games. current faves are Pandemic, Gloom, Chez Geek, and Fluxx.

If you are also a parent of a toddler - trips to the park are more fun with a grownup to talk to.

Message me if you want to get together and hang out and game, or do stuff in the city. Or, I suppose, if you think I look like fun — you just may be right.

Also, message me if you know what this is without having to look it up:
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