That said, I am also quite the realist. I understand that kind of beautiful connection doesn't happen every day. I made a deal with myself a while back to never settle, and to never give up on finding what I'm looking for. I'll admit that I've found it a few times, only to learn later that it was nothing but smoke and mirrors.
I live for today. When I see that on a man's profile, I think they are looking for a casual relationship. I'm not saying that at all. If the choices you make today are in line with your goals and values, then it's for the best. This is what allows me to have a great time with just about everyone I meet. Enjoy today, because who knows what tomorrow will bring.
So, what makes me different? Certainly there are a few things. First, I manage a horse farm, train horses, and also teach people how to ride. I'm the head coach of a collegiate riding team, and have a group of amateurs I travel with locally to competition. This is not the kind of career you hear about every day. It is very demanding and fulfills me in many ways. My partner will find this intriguing and support me in my professional endeavors. Second, I am fiercely ambitious. Perhaps other women are, too, but I feel like we are a rare few. I am currently in school for my MBA. I expect to be finished with that by the end of the year. I am constantly looking for ways to better myself, my business, and my future. Living out of my comfort zone is something I am getting use to. Third, I will speak my mind, for better or for worse. You can rely on my honesty and transparency. Lastly, I will make you laugh, burn with desire, and delight your friends and family. I am not without faults, but I am a total package.
What am I looking for in a partner? I would love to meet a man, that is ready in a lot of the same ways I am. This person would know his heart and be able to convey it. It would be great if he were happy in his life in general, regardless of how he got there or what it is that inspires joy. I tend to do better with those that are charismatic, as I can be a little shy at first. Someone that is not phased by inappropriate humor, or would not be offended by some of the things that others would turn beat red over. Someone that would not be deterred when I curse, either on purpose of by accident. Someone that does not think that my red streak is a phase that will pass one day. For the record, my goal is to get a washboard stomach by summer so I can get a belly button ring and side/thigh/back/stomach tattoo. Yes, you read that right. I have a wild side. Also, my partner will incite passion in me. He will embrace an active lifestyle and be an appropriate physical complement.
The contrast you just experienced is also what makes me different. I am sophisticated with a sparkle in my eye. I am steady, sure, and stable, as much as I am tumultuous, carefree, and brazen.
If you have made it this far and are still interested, I kindly encourage you to send me a message.