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33 F Lowell, MA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:17pm
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Hello, all. Thank you for checking out my profile. I'm sure you have been clicking through many and are wondering what's so different about me. Frankly, I am not so dissimilar from the other ladies on this site. I'm ready for that *real* relationship. The one you tell your folks about. The kind of relationship that allows you to make plans, and feel comfortable. I'm ready to walk through life with my other half.

That said, I am also quite the realist. I understand that kind of beautiful connection doesn't happen every day. I made a deal with myself a while back to never settle, and to never give up on finding what I'm looking for. I'll admit that I've found it a few times, only to learn later that it was nothing but smoke and mirrors.

I live for today. When I see that on a man's profile, I think they are looking for a casual relationship. I'm not saying that at all. If the choices you make today are in line with your goals and values, then it's for the best. This is what allows me to have a great time with just about everyone I meet. Enjoy today, because who knows what tomorrow will bring.

So, what makes me different? Certainly there are a few things. First, I manage a horse farm, train horses, and also teach people how to ride. I'm the head coach of a collegiate riding team, and have a group of amateurs I travel with locally to competition. This is not the kind of career you hear about every day. It is very demanding and fulfills me in many ways. My partner will find this intriguing and support me in my professional endeavors. Second, I am fiercely ambitious. Perhaps other women are, too, but I feel like we are a rare few. I am currently in school for my MBA. I expect to be finished with that by the end of the year. I am constantly looking for ways to better myself, my business, and my future. Living out of my comfort zone is something I am getting use to. Third, I will speak my mind, for better or for worse. You can rely on my honesty and transparency. Lastly, I will make you laugh, burn with desire, and delight your friends and family. I am not without faults, but I am a total package.

What am I looking for in a partner? I would love to meet a man, that is ready in a lot of the same ways I am. This person would know his heart and be able to convey it. It would be great if he were happy in his life in general, regardless of how he got there or what it is that inspires joy. I tend to do better with those that are charismatic, as I can be a little shy at first. Someone that is not phased by inappropriate humor, or would not be offended by some of the things that others would turn beat red over. Someone that would not be deterred when I curse, either on purpose of by accident. Someone that does not think that my red streak is a phase that will pass one day. For the record, my goal is to get a washboard stomach by summer so I can get a belly button ring and side/thigh/back/stomach tattoo. Yes, you read that right. I have a wild side. Also, my partner will incite passion in me. He will embrace an active lifestyle and be an appropriate physical complement.

The contrast you just experienced is also what makes me different. I am sophisticated with a sparkle in my eye. I am steady, sure, and stable, as much as I am tumultuous, carefree, and brazen.

If you have made it this far and are still interested, I kindly encourage you to send me a message.
What I’m doing with my life
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When I'm not managing the farm and teaching people how to ride, I'm probably at my keyboard either writing or arranging music. Lately, this whole process has been upset by my MBA program, but there is always time for those activities that feed the soul. Other things I love doing that are not part of my core focus are running with my dog by a lake or state park, visiting ice cream stands, exploring new places both in the city and the sticks, taking day trips to sit by the ocean, testing out all the local brunch spots for the best Bloody Mary breakfast! So far, no place has wowed me more than Big Sam's in Virginia Beach, but that is quite a drive for breakfast!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Keeping my place relatively tidy, taking care of horses, singing and all things musical, and making a mess out of various things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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You will notice me. That's really the first thing. I rather enjoy turning heads, which I always seem to do. You might notice my hair or my eyes next; or maybe my distinctive walk. I am almost always making the people around me laugh. I have that special presence that makes you know exactly how I'm feeling. Most of the time, that is happy, grateful, and optimistic. No matter what, my face sells me out every time.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My phone
My trifecta (see 80s night pics)
A car
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How the hell am I gonna do all the shit I need to do?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Fridays I try to keep pretty tame because I actually work on Saturdays. Saturday nights though, watch out!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You will always know my mind by the music I am listening to. For example:
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I would love to hear from a man that knows his own heart and acts on it. Know who you are and what you're looking for, and be fair and when considering how someone else fits. Have goals and strive to achieve them. Message me if you can love deeply and express it, and if you can be foolish and have fun with it. If you are dying for a Back to the Future marathon, complete with take-out and beer. Have your priorities straight and know how to live your life in alignment with your priorities. If you want a beautifully edgy woman by your side that looks breathtaking in a black dress and heels--and if your arm is free.

Do NOT message me if:
-you want to just have sex.
-you have a girlfriend, or are in a "complicated situation".
-you are not gainfully employed or have some source of sustainable money or income. No, I'm not a gold digger. I have plenty of money. I don't want to support you.
-like threesomes or other kinky shit involving other people? Don't message me.
-don't like a woman that will challenge you, speak her mind, and expect you to rise to the occasion? Don't message me.
-if you want me to be your bitch, message me. I will enjoy decimating you.
-if you're always looking for something better, please do keep looking.
-if you want to just buy me stuff. That's weird, but I'm sure lots of women would love to rob you blind. Not me!
-if you want me to hurt you or humiliate you. No guarantees that these things wouldn't happen anyway, but I'm not getting my whip out just for you. My sharp tongue might get you if you're a stupid asshole or worthless sack of shit.
-if you must have kids.
-if you want your woman to fulfills certain female stereotype.

Ok, hopefully my inbox will stop being flooded by insulting bullshit.