Update again (11/2014)... where i am now.... A bit older than i once was, and younger than I'll be again. Sheesh, I guess it's been awhile, since I've been active here, that just means I was busy with other things that didn't work out. I think I'm stronger and smarter and possibly kinder and gentler. Ive realized a thing or two about myself, and about love and lust and how these things should be beautiful, unplanned and unintended, and that the best relationships are the ones that happen because they should, ought, and do. I'm here, again, because i have had great relationships that didn't continue- and I still believe that somewhere, out there, is the right one that will last the rest of my life. I struggle a bit, with the feeling that it might be a stigma, that i feel lost enough to keep trying here, to keep meeting strangers and hoping that something might just work... but, well fuck it, the world grows smaller daily and i'm just as likely to find a great love here, as anywhere.
Here it is, another update,(3/8/13.)-summarily. Apparently I don't define myself well, so let me begin by telling you why I might NOT respond to your message/IM/etc. If your username indicates your fetish/loneliness/desperation- no. Fetishes are cool, but if it happens, we will get into that later, it shouldn't be a primary focus. If you pay more mind to video and or RPG's than your own world- no. If you are a couple-no. (Been there, done that, and I am not the sharing kind. Although props to y'all- hope you find what you seek. ) If you like long walks on the beach, cuddling, kittens, -no. If all you have to say is "hi, you're pretty- what's up- how ya doin?-" NO. have a brain and respect the fact that this is not a bar. Those uninspired hellos do not stand out here. Guess what? I'm bored where I am, I'm here to see if something or someone catches me the right way. I'm not dating randomly, but purposefully. That said... if you pass those tests, try me. ...
10/10/12.You know what? I have not been on this site in a long while. I need to update my profile. But right now, I am not going through the whole damn thing. My basic ideas and beliefs haven't changed, since I wrote all of the following two years ago. For now, I am weary of games, wary of folks I haven't met before, but hopeful that I can make a true and kind connection. I'm not here for casual sex, nor do I want to marry and have babies at the drop of a hat. I just want to see what happens, who I might meet, and be open to possibilities. I may love you. I may intensely dislike you. I may just tolerate you, because I am like that. I likely will be guarded.Hopefully, some of you can see past that. I am not into gamers or gangsters, but if you are real, honest, true to yourself, know who you are, and are open to the good things in life, well, come on, then. I'd like to hear from you. And, please, be prepared to be intelligent. (the preceding is current as of 10/10/12. The rest of my spiel is older, but still genuine. Read on if it pleases ye... and yes that is an old pic. will update soon.)
I intend to live deliberately, while remaining open to randomness. I cherish the nuances in life, the highs and lows that weave to make a beautiful fabric.