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41 Cupertino, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 34-42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Dec 28, 2012
5' 10" (1.78m)
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Working on University
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), Polish (Somewhat), Chinese (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat), Farsi (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Okay, I'm back. Maybe. Sort of. Lol It's been over a year, and I've played with my hair color for the first time in my life. I'm blond now! So I need new pictures to put up obviously.

I am dorky, independent, and friendly
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
New job, new house, and new life. It is all keeping me very very busy right now.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Coming up with unique answers to the question "What do you want to do". They aren't always good ideas, but I come up with them. Would you take a turn, or would you make me keep brainstorming for you?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height. I'm told my eyes sometimes by people who don't seem to be looking at my eyes, but the first question I usually get is "How tall are you".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I always head straight for the sociology section in the library or in book stores. Right now I am reading "Dancing in the Streets A History Of Collective Joy" by Barbara Ehrenreich. "Geography of Nowhere" by James Howard Kunstler is what I usually point to when someone wants to know about me through what I read.

I haven't been to the movies in ages! I'd love to go see the new James Bond. I don't own a TV yet, but when I did I really liked documentaries and independent films.

Music I am all over the map now. I used to be a snob and think classical was the only kind of music worthy of attention. Then I found out I have no talent. It was a tough pill to swallow, but it made me realize that all the music I used to turn my nose up at has that essential quality I lacked as a musician.

Spicy food! Yum! I'm not a vegetarian, I just prefer to order stuff without meat. If a host were to serve me green fuzzy meat I would eat it without hesitation. I'm not to fond of seafood, but the last guy I met on OKC turned me on to sushi. I didn't get to keep him, but I could still enjoy a spicy tuna roll.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Me time

My own space

Health and fitness I see as a necessary evil more than a hobby.

Three more things I will have to come up with later. I am already living without so many things I thought I could never part with in the past.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Other people. It is my philosophy that everyone is more concerned with what others think of them than what they think of me. So I don't care what others think of me. I try and reassure others of what I think of them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On alternate Fridays I am either with my kids or with my friends. With my kids I could be talking/playing video games, out hiking, or cracking the whip getting the house organized. With my friends, I could be at a coffee shop, out listening to free live music somewhere, or on occasion I have been dragged to the Saddle Rack to stomp all over some poor cowboy's feet. I am absolutely awful at dancing.