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Rhythmchanges

59 / M / Straight / Single

New Orleans, Louisiana

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:10am
Ethnicity
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Not entirely sure what I’m doing here, but I’m here just the same. I’m a professional jazz musician with a master's degree, and a former academic. If you’re into the jazz scene here in New Orleans, you might recognize me, hence no face picture. I'd like to work in academia again someday, and feel it's best to keep some of my more...exotic proclivities under wraps. Employers can be very conservative about this stuff, trust me, I've been burned this way before. If you message me, I'll be happy to send you pics, or point you to where you can find some. There's tons on the internet.

Away from the horns, I enjoy talking about politics, health care, books, old movies and television. I read voraciously. I’ve lived various places, including abroad, and spent a large part of my youth touring the country playing music with big name acts. From strip joints to The Supremes, I’ve got a repertoire of stories from a rather adventurous life.
What I’m doing with my life
Back playing professionally full time after a few years teaching at colleges and universities. This can involve considerable travelling, so if we're chatting and I suddenly don't get back to you for a day or too, it's probably just a matter of spotty hotel wireless service.
I’m really good at
I am very good at playing music and teaching. I was a professor for six years, and it was the most fullfilling 'day job' I've ever had. I hope to return to it some day.
The first things people usually notice about me
The way I look at you.:)

I’m very tall and have been told I’m handsome. I’ve been told I’m quite the story teller. Despite being born in Seattle, people seem to think I’m a native New Orleanian.

I'm a "gorgeous slice of man" according to my good friend Wakepersephone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Let's see, books. Anything by Charles Dickens or James Lee Burke. Chester Himes. James Sallis. Robin Kelly's new biography on Thelonious Monk. James Baldwin. Toni Morrison. Louis Maistros. A couple of Irish authors I read recently and liked but can't remember their names at the moment. Pulp mysteries by people like John Lescroart (I read that stuff like some people watch television). Musicology journals.

Music: John Coltrane, Nick Payton, Clyde Kerr Jr. (may he rest in peace) Charles Mingus, Dexter Gordon, James Brown, Buckwheat Zydeco, the Meters, Eddie Bo, Ike Quebec, Stanley Turrentine, Adonis Rose, Herlin Riley, Harold Battiste, Albert Collins, BB King, John Lee Hooker. Al Green, Bobby Womack, Johnny Adams, Alvin Battiste... I could go on forever here. I've been privileged to play with some of these people; life has been good to me that way.

Bach, Mozart, Scriabin, Penderecki, Stravinsky, Miles Davis, Stan Getz, Haydn (especially his string quartets) Milhaud, Duke Ellington, Jimmy Vaughn (but no Stevie Ray, thank you, doesn't swing enough for me) Dr. John, Woody Shaw, Edgar Varese, Archie Shepp, Albert Ayler, Arvo Part, the Turtles and their later incarnation Flo and Eddie, old Charlie Rich and Hank Williams, Bobby Taylor and the Vancouvers, Betty Carter, Darius Milhaud, Eddie Harris, Sharon Jones and the Dap Kings, Johnny Cash, ...I've got pretty wide ranging tastes.
The six things I could never do without
My horns
Good food
Good sex
Good literature
Good music (the only kind I like)
Good people (lots of those in New Orleans).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to deal with altered dominants over standard ii V7 I progressions.

Also, quite a bit about the future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing music, glued to the couch reading, or enjoying good company
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm actually quite shy, although I don't come across that way. I've spent a lifetime onstage pretending not to be.:)

More recently, I’ve discovered more kinky/dom tendencies about myself. Nothing radical, and the 'ceremonial' aspects don't much appeal to me (I look dumb in those leather hats). I'm just kind of...forceful lol.

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I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You want to hear a good story. I know several. Ask me about my Dr. John story.

If you’re a little on the kinky side, or even a lot. ^_~