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35 Phoenix, AZ Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:58pm
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body type
Mostly other
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from med school
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, and might want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Other (Okay), Swahili (Poorly), Mongolian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a highly ambitious man who believes in unstoppable laughter and enjoying both simple pleasures and impromptu adventures.

I love mountain biking, backpacking, snowboarding, and anything that involves traveling. Sometimes you can't beat just relaxing for movie night though. Spontaneity and unplanned random date nights to restaurants around Phoenix are the best. Then again, getting spiffy for social events is always great.

As for who I'm looking for, let's put it this way: confidence and independence are just plain sexy! I'm not looking for the girl who needs 1000 likes a day on Instagram, but rather the one who carries herself well and invests in herself...for herself. I do not want to jump head-first into some whirlwind relationship, but first see if there is a connection and let it go from there.

What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am in my surgical residency pursuing orthopedic surgery.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can cook. I know when to shut up and just listen. My little dudes tell me I am the best daddy, and since they're the best little boys it must be true ;-)

Oh, I am really good at suturing. That may sound gross to anyone not involved with medicine, but hey...I am good at it. I can also troubleshoot and find solutions to things...let's just say I am very resourceful and creative when it comes to that. I also learned how to count in med school. I can count all the way up to 12 now.

I can also fix most things and navigate any wilderness. I can start fire pits without matches or lighters and I can remodel a whole kitchen in a week.

World class back rubs too
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am genuine. I don't put on a BS show and I tend to try to find the things I appreciate about people right away. I think that shows in the way I interact with people, but honestly I haven't asked anyone, so I couldn't really say.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Authors: Patrick Rothfuss, Tolkein, Stephen King, Orson Scott Card, James Joyce, M.R. James, etc...too many to name

Movies: All movies! I love movies!

Shows: Yes I like to go to the ballet, opera, and see musicals...go ahead, laugh it up! Haha.

Music: I am trying to figure out what I don't like...oh wait...Top 40.

Food: I love al types of international cuisine. I absolutely love seafood. My particularly favorite restaurants tend to be gastropubs like The Parish, Jax, or The Abbey. I also crave sushi very often.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- My two awesome kiddos, even though they live so far away :-(
- Trust
- Drive/ambition
- Sushi
- The Oregon coast
- Laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether I want the sliders or the nachos at The Vig
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably not aware that it's All the days of the week just kind of blur together.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ha! Not yet.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are fun, honest with yourself and others, can laugh at everything, are interested in a man who knows himself, look cute in yoga pants ;-)