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69 New Orleans, LA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 54–69
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:19pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Has a kid
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a man who is very much alive, vibrant, curious, passionate and empathetic. I am looking for a like-minded woman. I want to form a bond—something real and strong and lasting.

I read today that a writer was given advice by a mentor when the writer was young. The advice was, "Discover something new every day." I believe in that. I love books and reading. I write and I teach and so art, all art, is important to me.

I have a daughter I'm nuts about. And very proud of. Being her dad has been, and is, a privilege.

I am in body and spirit closer to 50. The photos are current, they are the reality. So, what I'm saying is, see if there's something here that resonates with you, with your head and your heart.

I am not a huge Saints fan, cannot drive a tractor or a back hoe. But I can make you laugh. I like the outdoors, but not to hunt. I love nature. I love mornings.

I'm an enthusiastic dog guy.

I believe in compassion, courage and love.

I like to travel. I lived in France for a year, in a small village. Before I came to New Orleans, I lived in New York happily for thirty years. I want intimacy. I want passion. I want a woman who wants that, too. Enthusiastically. I want to laugh with her. I mean, hearty, almost out-of-control laughter. I want someone who appreciates the short glorious present we've been given, these rich years here. In short, I want to spend my time with someone I'm impossibly attracted to and who I can go all in with. Because, as we know, it's still a gamble, isn't it? I'll end with some lyrics from Joni Mitchell's great record, "Blue": "All that I really want our love to is to bring out the best in me and in you."
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm trying to savor every minute of this all-too precious life. I'm breathing in and breathing out, happily.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I will not say I'm a good writer because that's bad luck, and in any case it's not up to me to decide. I do my best. It's what I care about.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hmmm. I have absolutely no idea.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
So many books, so little time. From Heart of Darkness to Seabiscuit to Hemingway's short stories. I have entire wall full of friends--i. e., books. Music? All kinds, really. Blues, opera, jazz...whoops, add rap and heavy metal to the "no" category. Food? Love so many types of cuisines. So many good things to eat. I love to cook.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, light, friendship, laughter, compassion, family.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Looking at The Gambit and seeing what's out there. And then often decide seeing some friends might be more fun.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Does anyone ever answer this question?
You should message me if
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Any of this coincides with what you're looking for. If so, I'd love to hear from you. Of course, I realize it all begins with friendship, and I'm definitely looking for a best friend. And someone to laugh with. Message me if you're willing to take a chance, go with your heart. Please, no long distance relationships. I understand they can work sometimes, but they never have for me.