Also important is finding the best possible fit in a relationship. Heck nothing is perfect but if we find the next possible thing to it, we've done pretty well on being happy for the long term.
I can say that finding a attractive, fit and active partner is important to me, like it should be. I am attracted to positive, happy people who want to be with an upbeat man. I truly believe this is going to be the best time in my life, lets go for the ride.
I just think we must aim high, execute and live and love large for ourselves, our friends and family. Really, what else matters?