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My self-summary
The best way to get to know me by actually having some face-to-face conversation where you can see that I am in fact, a real human being and not a series of flattering photographs and arbitrary answers to questions about sex, politics and religion. I prefer to have specific questions asked of me rather than the ever bland "So...tell me about yourself".

I'll spare you the pain of going-in-blind. I'm a Minnesota-native who transplanted to the East-Coast following my fiancé who was doing the grad-school thing, I'm back in town and learning what's new. I'm a walking contradiction, sometimes I have a liberal use of sarcasm. I promise, I don't mean to offend. Usually it just takes a few minutes of just talking with me to realize that I'm not a horrible person and rather like making friends with anyone. I've been described as nerdy, intelligent, funny on occasion, fun, a wee-bit OCD, creative, cultured, impulsive, sassy-as-fuck, the list goes on, I'm sure. I'll let you decide if any of the above adjectives are true. What I do know is that I'm veracious, tiny, and interestingly enough, complex. I believe in honesty in every aspect of life.

I'm polyamorus, which means I'm non-monogamous, I don't see that as a license to cheat. I like the idea of consensual, responsible, non-monogamy. I'm engaged to my wonderful primary parter, edgyhedgy, and open to secondary relationships, as well as just meeting new people. I'm also part of the LGBT community as a queer Gender-fluid person. If you need to know what any of that means, please use your search bar conveniently located in your browser and or web-app. Still have questions? Go ahead and run them by me.
What I’m doing with my life
Working as an an Office Admin full-time. Event Planner by trade, but a Swiss-army knife be necessity.

Periodically, I build costumes, and work at nerd conventions, because I like to walk among my people.
I’m really good at
Organizing things, events, people's lives. Being a huge nerd. Getting excited for things. Outside of being vague, I rather enjoy though-provoking conversations with people, writing, reading, and down-hill skiing.

I am by no means amazing at any one thing but, I like all other humans have my moments of brilliance.
The first things people usually notice about me
That depends, am I sitting or standing? Little, itty-bitty person, big personality.

I suppose you'll have to meet me and tell me what you notice first.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: That list is long, I love Biographies, History Books, Classics, Modern Fiction and even the occasional "children's" book (Hello Harry Potter!). Currently reading The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle.

Movies: God I love movies, 28 Days Later, 50 First Dates, The Avengers, Big Fish, Boondock Saints, Bright Star, Captain Blood, Pretty much anything Disney/Pixar, Easy A, Ever After, The Fall, Garden State (It will change your life), Harry Potter, He's Just not that Into You, Hot Fuzz, The Hobbit, How to Train Your Dragon, Iron Man, It's a Wonderful Life, Kick Ass, Love Actually, North by Northwest, Monster's Inc., Moulin Rouge, The Patriot, Scott Pilgrim, Shaun of the Dead, Singing In the Rain, Silence of the Lambs, Spanglish, Shoot Em' Up, Star Wars (Chat Star Wars with me at your own risk, I will mad geek out), Tangled, Underworld, V for Vendetta, Vertigo, X-Men

TV: 30 Rock, Agents of Shield, Archer, BBC's Sherlock, Being Human UK, Big Bang Theory, Bones, Brooklyn 99, Cold Case, Criminal Minds, Cowboy Bebop, Dexter, Doctor Who, Downton Abbey, Drop Dead Diva, Firefly, FLCL, Futurama, Game of Thrones, Grey's Anatomy, Heroes, House, How I met Your Mother, Last Exile, Law and Order: SVU, Misfits, NCIS, New Amsterdam, Once Upon A Time, Orange is the New Black, Pushing Dasies, Ripper Street, Sleepy Hallow, Supernatural, Top Gear, Torchwood, True Blood, The Tudors, Veronica Mars, Whitechapel

Music: Alkaline Trio, Brandi Carlisle, Brian Setzer Orchestra, Clint Mansell, Deathcab for Cutie, Daft Punk, Dashboard Confessional, Dispatch, Dropkick Murphy's, Flogging Molly, Florence and the Machine, The Fray, Frou Frou, The Format, The Entire Garden State Soundtrack, Imogen Heap, Imagine Dragons, Ingrid Michaelson, Johnny Cash, Ludovico Einaudi, The Lumineers, Mackelmore and Ryan Lewis, Missy Higgins, Mumford and Sons, Passion Pit, Of Monsters and Men, Rufus Wainright, Say Anything, Scott Bradlee and The Postmodern Jukebox, The Fray, The Hush Sounds, The Weepies, Train, Vampire Weekend, Zoe Keating

Also, Welcome to Night Vale, but that's a radio show.

Food: I'm an awfully picky eater so I try to avoid letting people cook for me solely because I'm a pain. I'm allergic to black pepper, and anything that swims. I dislike spicy, and generally am pretty weird about food textures. Though I will never say no to chocolate and my favorite food is baked Mac n' Cheese.
The six things I could never do without
Friends I call family
The Internet
My cat, Magnesium
A nice warm bed
Some sort of delicious caffeinated drink
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Have you ever had one thought and it's split into fifty and then each of those have split into fifty as well? Welcome to my mind, it's always running, even if its not on the right frequency.

I think about art, music, philosophy, what to cosplay next, people, quotes, writing, what the hell was that thing that I thought that other week that I was supposed to remember, the telly, politics, things that piss me off, things that make me happy, really, you'll have to just ask me at that moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually getting my climb on, go see filmsor hitting up my local, but sometimes I change the pace and do other things, I'm open to suggestions.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love playing around with accents, trying them out, trying to sound convincing, I'm decent with anything from the British Isles and rubbish with practically anything east of Germany.

Also, If I visit a person's profile multiple times it's usually because I'm gathering conversation material as I talk to them. It's a bit embarassing.
You should message me if
You actually read my profile, and can think of something to say other than "Hi/hey, how are you?", I'm not high-maintenance but I'm easily bored with small-talk.

You're interesting and interested. If you can hold a conversation with content that doesn't comment solely on my appearance while using decent grammar and spelling.