Note to self. No longer need a room mate because I enjoy my privacy to much. Plus I wouldn't be able to walk about in my birthday suit, shock horror! Lol ;-)
Edit: Yes I am bi, pan whatever floats my boat. Starting to think I might go full on lesbo after meeting some of you guys from here lol wow some of you need to up your dosage of prozac ;-)
Other than that, yes ladies I am available to date a strong, fun and spirited birdie a bit like myself also. But if you're a bit of a little submissive girlie that would be lovely to. ;-)
CAUTION LONG PROFILE.ENTER AT YOUR OWN RISK!!
Make sure you get your popcorn & soda ready before you read this you will need it, t'is a long, long description :P Also if you don't like girls that have a little meat then don't read any further, I would hate for you to waste your time. Yes I am a BBW. I repeat a BBW which means, Big Beautiful Woman for those that have no clue Lol :D **update;11/25/12: Was thinking of shortening my profile but it seems a lot of y'all are liking my lengthy profile so I will keep it so for the time being. Thanks my lovelies for the smashing compliments and positive comments. But hopefully I won't be on here much longer ;)
So here you have it:
My name is Nina. I am 35. I have dark brown eyes which have been described as soulful/exotic/seductive/ bedroom eyes and other things. I am of mixed race (British, Spanish and Jamaican). A little on the kinky side with a very open mind looking for someone similar to match me.
Actually my father was the DEVIL and my mother was LILITH. Kidding!! No really!!My biological mother was white/spanish and my biological father was Jamaican bla bla lol.
I would describe myself as full figured or voluptuous. I did originally put BBW but ppl have said that I'm not and should not refer to being one so...here you have it. I am pleasently plump, petite and in proportion and halfway healthy lol
I love my body and can say I am comfortable with my size and being in my own skin. Yes I could stand to lose a few measly pounds which I am working on, not for you arrogant males benefits but for my own(I plan on being around for a long, long time;)).
BRITAIN is my homeland(Yes I have the British accent going on, in case your mind is boggling at the thought of a mixed birdie with an adorable Brit accent) Anyways I was born in the West Midlands/Birmingham, but raised in a small town called Wisbech. This little girl grew up and moved to Misawa, Japan in 2001 when she was 24 years old and then moved to the USA in 2003 where she has been living for what it seems like forever(About 9 years now she thinks lol).
My overall preference is definitely caucasian men. A great personality, neat appearance and if you smell good is pretty agreeable to.
I probably wear my heart on my sleeve too much at times I think which gets me into trouble so now I am a little weary at first but just be yourself with me and all will be fine. I always write a lot on my profile but I do it so you can get to know me a little and a sense of me before contacting me. But I am British and we do tend to natter a lot :P
Anyway what I am looking for is YOU:
You're a gentleman that is fit, healthy and eats a well balanced diet because I am trying to get healthy myself and their is nothing better than being with someone who is health conscious and supports their partner in getting into shape. I am not really a runner but just started jogging at night with my daughter(under the cover of darkness so no one can see my bits jiggling haha)
I don't have a problem with a guy that has a bit of meat on his bones but exercise and eating healthy is a plus. If I can do it, so can you. But I have realized now at 35 years old this is the time for me to lose weight and become healthier than I ever have been in my life because I want to be around for my daughters and hopefully my future grandchildren.
I want YOU to be sincere and honest-don't sugar coat anything and don't be afraid to critique me or speak your mind to me, I can totally take the truth, just be honest with me lol, a little freaky/kinky like me but no worries if you aren't as open as me and embrace that side of yourself yet, but trust me I might end up bringing it out of you because everyone has an inner freak and would be liars if they said they weren't. You must love to cuddle and kiss A LOT & open to PDA, and be a little organized please. You have to like a women with curves and thickness though or willing to give it a whirl..Ever heard the expression.."Big girls do it better"..?? ;)
You have to love kids, or maybe want one of your own eventually as I am inclined to maybe try for another before my ovaries shrivel up and quit functioning haha.
I like a guy who doesn't hold back and shows his sensitive side at times. Trust me, I weep at sad movies and sometimes you may irk me to frustration where I may get upset and cry but hey I am a woman :) (Just don't leave the toilet seat up so when I go to use it I don't fall in the dang toilet bowl ha ha ha trust me it has happened lol) But yes I can be a little sensitive at times and also over analyze too much and am a little critical of myself but never others.
I do speak my mind at times but I have a sweet side as well as a naughty side. I can be your best friend, your lover, your equal. I do love to please and sometimes I think that is a weakness. Sometimes I try to hard to fix something that can't be fixed but I sure do give it my all. I don't like to go down without a fight. Especially if I see potential. Not sure what you want but I know I want to have a very fulfilling life with lots of laughter, smiles, family vacations, goals and dreams achieved and to watch my children thrive and do well for themselves. I love the little things in life.
I don't mind where you live whether you are in Illinois, Florida, Canada or blooming Timbuktu because where there is a will there is always a way. Finding a partner is not always about looks either but it does play some what of a role, but to me if you have a wonderful personality, you're honest and sincere and somewhat intellectual and a big kid at heart that would more than likely win me over. But there has to be something, whether it be that dimple on your chin or cheek, or that sexy way the corner of your lip turns up as you smile, or maybe the way you ruffle your hair out of frustration or the way your eyes light up every time you see me. I always try to find something cute about someone but sometimes it doesn't always work.
However Like I said before I am at that age where I would like to settle down with a like minded individual. I am not looking for a quick hook up or a one night stand as sexual as I am that is just NOT for me.
A man with manners, respects women, who is gentle yet can be Dominant with a freaky side at times is the kind of man I am looking for, maybe you like a woman to take control once in a while ;). So if your a man that is sick of being lonely and wants something more than a one night stand and actually want to come home to someone each day than message me. I would love to hear from you.
On another note, I do not need a stand in father for my daughter, she has a father. But it is paramount that you are comfortable around children. My daughters will always come first.
But other than that I am a goofy, teeny weeny bit nerdy, freaky, kind hearted, understanding and down to earth kind of person who will let her guard down once in a while to let that special someone in.
People would say I am pretty easy to get a long with but why don't you just come and find out for yourself, I see you looking at my profile many, many times yet you don't message. Obviously something caught your attention so why don't you just introduce yourself and I will message you back.
I am very open minded in a relationship, yes I am talking sexually wise. Like I said before (scroll up) I do have a bit of a kinky side. So visits to the naughty store for fun toys is a must for me so you cannot be shy or at least be somewhat willing to come inside with me so I can watch you blush and giggle at you as you try to duck for cover when you spot someone you know, ;)
I know I probably won't find my perfect partner because there really is no such thing but just you being on here and being the first to initiate contact with me is a start so don't be shy. Like I said there is so much I want to say and soooo much more to know about me but I feel it would be more appropriate to bring it up in a conversation between us and I have already opened up more than I should on here just so you know that I am being sincere.
I do love the shy, awkward, nerdy types and even the conservative types. But I am also drawn to the deep, dark and mysterious to. So now you can see I am attracted to a variety of delectable tastes in the male species, but confidence and intelligence is a big turn on for me to.
Yes, yes, yes I am educated(Graduated secondary school(Queens School) and college(Isle College) in England with GCSE'S, GNVQ'S and A Levels as well as going to college here in the USA and graduating from Southwestern Ohio in Medical Coding). I grew up in a well to do family in a tiny little village and YES I really do work for a living. I work hard to take care of my daughter as any good mother should do and I love what I do.
I currently work in Health Care and I am very happy with my job,and I adore my patients, and they adore me and I would not leave them for the world :)
Want to know more all you have to do is ask. Thanks for your time in reading my profile.
Now that you're at the bottom, wonderful it means you read it all and now please take note. If for some reason I do not respond to your message it is either:
1. Because you're way too old as in you remind me of my father, and I am totally not going there...ahhh!...
2. I didn't respond because you have a silly name that has some sexual innuendo to it, No I will not reply to you if you're called cl*t licker or Big B*lls.
3. Because you're wanting me to write filth, or send dirty pictures-Grow up, that's so immature and such a turn off.
4. I am more than likely fending off the loonies, pervs and ppl called Big B*lls or Cl*t Licker or what ever crazy name they have.
5. Or I just didn't get to your message yet, so bare with me please. I try to respond to everyone, and If I am not interested I let you know. It's only fair, right? Just as I appreciate it if you tell me I am not your type or w.e. But I do appreciate the lovely messages, not so the icky creepy incestuous ones some of you sickos send me.
Hope you got the popcorn out and had a good read, had a good laugh, a jolly good time and absolutely fell in love with me and my British sense of humour and didn't fall asleep on me haha:D
P.S. Also take note, I really could do with some new friends to, so if I am not your type but you fancy hanging out and listening to my British accent over a cuppa Tetley's Tea and a crumpet or take in a movie together then I would be more than willing to entertain that idea. Always a good thing to have more friends. But not fwb thank you. Not interested in casual meaningless hook ups.