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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32-45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:03am
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
6' 4" (1.93m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Other but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm Inquisitive, Fun and a Gentleman. By Gentleman I mean considerate, compassionate, open minded, possessing integrity, honest and will go out of my way for a smile. Simple pleasures are the best. It is also fun to be romantic.

I am looking to get to know who you are and we'll take it from there. I am imperfect. I am alternately serious/child- like, intense/laid back, formal/casual. I enjoy finding something new, intelligent and different. I strive to be open-minded and will try most things once.

My two biggest passions are music and the environment. I also love sailing and am intrigued by Architecture and design, what works/doesn't work. Sailing soothes my soul and I look forward to every opportunity to be out on the water or around boats.

My music is definitely eclectic. See below, but for those of you what are impatient, Peter Gabriel, Massive Attack, Duke Ellington, Ella, Talking Heads and any other music that resonates/ moves me. What music resonates with you?

I am an independent sound engineer in the entertainment industry, which provides me great freedom (though I do have a schedule that varies). I'm the guy that knows what all of those buttons and dials do.... no, really!

As far as Environmentalism is concerned, I'm looking at how I can create gainful employment in this field so I can phase out the production work. I love what I currently do but I think it's more important to transform how we use resources and materials. I see the direction our country is going and the outlook is unfortunately bleak. I'm optimistic that we can still shift how we live and take conduct business.

I am looking for an adventurous partner to share my life with who is curious about the world and listens to what is going on around her. Confidant, partner, friend and lover all in one.

I enjoy woman with whom I can share both an active life and the passions/pursuits that are important for each of us. I value being open-minded and honoring my word and I want a partner who has a similar outlook.

Let's have fun exploring and sharing the world we live in, challenge/support each other, and look forward to the future that we are creating. Come ready to have fun, try something new, as well as laugh together (even at ourselves).

What you are passionate about? Tell me about you. Ask me anything. Show me the world as you see it, Beauty, Imperfections et al. Winks are nice, but you will definitely get a response if you send me a note and share some of your world with me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Exploring life, Self-Development, volunteering, environmental work, enjoying the journey of life, developing my company, coaching and empowering people to create and live their dreams.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Contributing to people, Being of Service, Sailing, Fixing things, figuring out how things work, cuddling, playing well with others, taking care of friends. Driving most any vehicle out there. Mixing music, enjoying and getting lost in the fun of pleasuring my lover.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My curly hair, height, my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Pretty Lights, Daft Punk, an eclectic mix of Rock, a bit of pop, Ska, Reggae, World, pretty much any band with horns, Massive Attack, Thievery Corporation, Old School R&B/ Soul, pre-fusion Jazz, Duke, Ella, Miles, Mose... a little bit of bubble gum, I'm susceptible to the pop hook. I'm always looking for new music. Shazam is a lifesaver. Tune in to or for a playlist.

Swing Dancing! Foreign/Independent Films.

Green Mill, Farmhouse! Owen Engine, Cafe Iberico, Reza's.

The Green Mill: A smooth dance floor/good music, digging up new tunes, new restaurants.


Sustainability: The Ecology of Commerce, Natural Capitalism, Cradle to Cradle, Ishmael.

Still one of the best books: The Master and Margerita, Mikhail Bulgakov. Also: Blindness/ Saramago and Be Here Now/ Ram Das

What are you reading? What would you recommend?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Six things I'd RATHER not do without:
Health and Vitality
Books/ Knowledge
Great Music
Great Food, red wine
Love and Affection
Contributing to people, be of service.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future of life for all of us. What condition the world will be when we hand it over to future generations. how I'm going to impact climate change and sustainability? Should I give up Sushi since it's not sustainable :(

How to make things work/ fit together, whatever I'm designing at the moment, , how to positively impact people's lives.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Perhaps, if I'm lucky, enjoying your company :) When I'm buried in production work, Sunday night is the new Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have all these ideas I want to try out and am looking forward to doing so... How will I ever find the time to do it all?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to connect/ share the journey with a generous and attentive man. You want to come out Swing Dancing.

You want build stuff, go on adventures, get into a bit of trouble, challenge yourself to take on what you've never done before. If you're not a hands on type of girl, I'll work for food ;) It's what I like to do and if it makes your life better/ you happy then it totally works for me.

Major bonus points if you like to cuddle. Yes, I know you've seen this before but just in case you missed it...

I've written plenty and I'd love to hear from you....