I am open minded, honest, and easy going.
My Self-Summary
I'm an unemployed recent graduate with no direction or plans for
the immediate future...are you turned on yet?
I am polyamorous, and no it's not because I just haven't met the
right girl yet. I'm interested in meeting more polyamorous people.
I only know a couple and would love to expand that network.
My interests include photography, film and the Gyllenhalls. I love
meeting people who can introduce me to new experiences, whether its
an obscure author or a hidden dumpling restaurant.
What I’m doing with my life
I work part time making documentaries and corporate vids.
In my spare time I am creating a multimedia resource for people
dealing with coming out issues. That project tends to consume most
of my life and should I secure funding will do so for the next few
years. Plants v Zombies pretty much takes up the rest of my time.
I’m really good at
Camera work and lighting, apparently editing though not my
favourite thing to do, pretending I am oblivious to how bad I am at
dancing, I've been told I am a good listener, making risotto and
sensing from clear across the city when someone has put a DVD back
in non-alphabetical order.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile is the usual answer I get to this. I am a very quiet
person when you first meet me. I'm not shy, just a little awkward
at times and until I establish a dynamic with someone I am quite
often stuck for something to say. If this happens when we meet
please don't mistake it for disinterest.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books - The HVX Book, anything on photography or lighting, Kim
Harrison, Neil Gaiman, William Goldman, The Ethical Slut.
Movies - Anything by George Romero, Sam Raimi, Angela Robinson, the
Wachowski brothers, Jaimi Babbit, Eileen Chaiken. Specific movies
are Night of the Living Dead series, Child's Play series,
Superstar, Donnie Darko, Fight Club, Juno, Bound, But I'm a
Cheerleader, DEBS, Serenity, Go, Down With Love...I better stop but
you get the idea.
Music - I generally love anything with good bass but I listen to
almost everything. My iTunes library looks like it is a mixture of
about 5 people's collections and probably is - thanks various
foster kids!
Food - I am a sucker for mashed potato but I try not to eat it too
often. I go mad over peanut butter and spicy food. This is very
important though - no chicken thigh fillets. ever.
The six things I could never do without
A camera, my friends, my family, clothes, food and a comfy bed.
Everything else is expendable.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My projects and other career related stuff (its great when you can
legitimately claim that watching the latest season of 30 Rock is
'career related'). I also spend a lot of time thinking about
relationships and internal moral consistency.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually out with a friend or partner or drinking cider in my boxer
shorts at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I have an unnatural fear of puppets. Mostly Muppets, but finger
puppets have been known to stalk me as well.
You should message me if
You are willing to tell me that my bum dance is sexy. And you know
that depth of field has nothing to do with sex.