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40 F Minneapolis, MN

My Details

Last Online
Jun 28
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm funny, smart, independent and open-minded. Generous and kind, expressive, optimistic. I enjoy art galleries and museums (esp. late-20th Century stuff), checking out new restaurants, walking around various green spaces, baking cookies, and cats. This summer I'm looking forward to hitting the Farmers' Market, doing a little camping, and taking advantage of the sunshine while it's here. It's stacking up to be a great summer already - but I'd rather have a guy by my side for all that stuff. He should be kind and smart and funny like me, both gentlemanly and a little edgy, creative in some way, more of a glass-half-full than a glass-half-empty kind of man. A good listener.

I really want to meet new people, have some new adventures. I haven't been married before, but I hope to find The One, it would be nice to sit on a front porch with someone every morning for a long time. (Is that too much?)
What I’m doing with my life
I own my own business, and I put a lot of energy and love into my work. I work with both my hands and my head, and am so lucky that I get to make amazing things all the time. If I had a proper job title, it would be "creative director" or something like that. But I fancy myself more of a hostess, a facilitator, a connector.

I'm constantly striving to make myself a little better and a little better – a little healthier, a little more organized, a little less stressed out, a little better at flossing.

Long-term goals include taking regularly scheduled vacations, getting a cabin up north, and winning ribbons for baking at the Minnesota State Fair.
I’m really good at
The domestic arts. Making things. Putting people at ease.

Also I have excellent penmanship.
The first things people usually notice about me
Dark curly hair, tall-ish girl in tall shoes, has a remarkable business card.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Infinite Jest, most anything by Tom Robbins or Douglas Coupland

Movies - Shawshank Redemption, Harold & Maude, Dirty Dancing

TeeVee - Californication, Entourage, Weeds, The Good Wife, Breaking Bad, Law & Order

Music - Pernice Brothers, Jonathan Richman, R.E.M., Beatles, Robyn Hitchcock, whatever they're doing on The Current or MPR

Food - Thai, Mexican, Indian, Italian, red meat, dark chocolate.
The six things I could never do without
My car (a Volvo 240)
Glowing rectangles
Somewhere to sit outside
Family & friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Grammar, punctuation and sentence structure.
How to make my life more awesome.
What are my cats doing right now?
Should I have pancakes, eggs, or pancakes and eggs for breakfast? Or an egg sandwich?
On a typical Friday night I am
Unwinding... cooking or baking something delightful...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I recently bought a wind chime.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 32–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
… you're a good man with a bad-ass streak. …. you want to wear something vaguely fashionable to an art opening … farmers' market, roller derby, bellying up at a dive bar and/or wine bar all sound like great dates … you have something to teach me, cuz I know I have things to teach you.