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28 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:08pm
Black, Native American
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Working on university
Entertainment / Media
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly), Welsh (Fluently), Occitan (Fluently), Sardinian (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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"The definition of success to me is not necessarily a price tag, not fame, but having a good life, and being able to say I did the right thing at the end of the day."
-Jeremy Luke

I chose a new city with no guarantees over an athletic scholarship at 18. which turned out to be one the best decisions of my life. Boy did I dodge a wealth of concussions.

I was told by a chief of an ancient spiritual practice that it was my destiny to help others heal.

I was interrogated and detained in another country for 48 hours and wouldn't be surprised if I'm on some sort of list. I didn't do anything, promise.

I was born with an extra finger on each hand. It's a genetic trait that passes through the men on my father's side.

I have a thing for blueberry muffins and mocha frapucinos, which I discovered is the perfect snack when you're the designated night driver for the family road trips.
What I’m doing with my life
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Studying indigenous spiritual and healing practices.
Writing, filmmaking, creating
Trying to figure out how to connect disadvantaged youth to the world in a meaningful and unique way to show them how much their experiences can change the world for the better.
Watching funny youtube videos with my nieces. This is one of our favorites,
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Staying up late,
Cleveland Brown impressions
picking up on people's vibes and energy,
making new dishes from whatever's in the cupboard.
remembering places and being able to go back to them from memory.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Some say my positive energy/vibe
My handshake
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Men's Healing-Men's Dreams, A Path of Blessing, Caring Enough To Lead, A Time for Andrew, A Thousand Splendid Suns, Lovesong, Advances in Functional Training

Movies: The Godfather, Shawshank Redemption, The Color Purple, Friday, old kung-fu movies, The Last Dragon, Do The Right Thing, Children of Men, Documentaries, the list goes on...

Shows: Law and Order, Bob's Burgers, Family Guy, Boondocks, The Twilight Zone (the old 50's Rod Serling one), The History Channel, Top Gear, Modern Family, Parks & Rec,

Music: Antonio Carlos Jobim, Jay Z, Jay Electronica, Astrud Gilderto, Bill Evans, Kishore Kumar, Common, Claude DeBussy, Dilla, Timbaland, Eric Clapton, Chet Baker, Drake, Kimbra, Musiq, THE ROOTS!, Sarah Vaughn, Nina Simone, Coldplay, Dave Matthews ,Red Hot Chili Peppers, Duke Ellington, Radiohead, Beatles, Cheb Khaled, Fairouz, Shirene, Cheb Mami, the list goes on...

Food: I have a rare disease called immuno-cheese and tomato sauce-deficiency so I have to eat some sort of Italian food at least once a week. Other than that, sushi, Chinese, soul food, drunken noodles is a favorite dish. Cooking is definitely a favorite thing of mine to do.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Something to write with and write on.
Three's enough
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Making sure I'm being enough of a supportive son/brother/uncle/friend.
Social justice, eradicating racism and this menacing image of men of color.
How have I not been to a Do-Over yet?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating one of my favorite comfort foods, at the movies, with friends, writing or studying, in the studio or catching up on some well deserved sleep.
You should message me if
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I look for a good heart and good character.

Aside from that, nothing I say here can replace the fact that we'll both know if/ when it's right. So let's grab a cup of something, enjoy the weather and each other's company.