Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First and foremost, I'm looking to connect. I love meeting people
and hearing their stories and their plans and their values.
Maybe those connections turn into friendships or relationships or
flings. But who knows? We'll just have to find out.
Okay, but who am I? Well...
I'm a geek, an atheist, a programmer.
I'm far left, a feminist, a Marxist, a vegetarian.
I'm an amateur psychologist and an occasional Buddhist.
Mostly, I think, I'm just someone who wants to hear what you have
to say, if you have something you want someone to hear.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working as a software engineer in SF.
Trying to figure out how to have a positive impact on the world.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting to important things fast.
Spending time with kids.
Being incredibly awkward. Seriously, I have a gift.
Getting into music exactly 6 months after everyone else has stopped
caring about it.
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The first things people usually notice about me
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Uhh... I don't know. Let me go ask someone...
Apparently people notice my reddish beard. I probably could have
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love good TV! Some favorite dramas: The Wire, Mad Men, Breaking
Bad. Some favorite comedies: Arrested Development, Archer, Broad
City, Louie. Some favorite space westerns: Firefly.
I haven't watched as many movies, but I'm slowly trying to catch up
on the classics. I like basically everything I've seen from Quentin
Tarantino and Wes Anderson and Woody Allen. (I know, the same
things everyone likes.) Also, I love Eternal Sunshine of the
I love music and listen to a lot. A small sampling of favorite
artists: Radiohead, The Mars Volta, of Montreal, The Strokes, Third
Eye Blind, Smashing Pumpkins, Kids & Explosions, James Blake,
Daft Punk, Justice, Kanye West, Kendrick Lamar.
I don't read books as often as I think I should, but when I do, it
tends to be non-fiction: psychology, politics, or anything else I
want to learn about.
Games: I like poker, Scrabble, Settlers of Catan, Dominion, and
most any other cool card/board games. If you know a cool one,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People, what matters in life, why people do what they do, how to
make the world better, how our society works (or sometimes
doesn't), synesthesia as the reason that art "works"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably hanging out with friends, drinking and talking
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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One reason I care so much what others find valuable in their lives
is that I sometimes am unsure what is valuable in my own.
You should message me if
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...you made it this far.
...you've read Carl Rogers or Brené Brown or Raphael Cushnir.
...you have something you need to tell someone, but you're not sure
who to tell.
...you have nothing better to do.
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