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57 M Brooklyn, NY

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Last Online
Aug 19
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
When drinking
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Danish (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I’m a positive, easy going, reasonably intelligent person .
Music, film, painting, theater keep my creative sensibilities fed. Photography is my main artistic and professional mainstay. Although I’m city born and love it here, particularly Brooklyn, I am very happy to camp in the backwoods, kayak, snowboard and feel the spray of the ocean, which I’m especially drawn to as a fisherman.

The love of stories – to hear them and to tell them, is a big part of me. I’ve done that in photography, books, and in film, but I’d just as soon hear one told to me as tell my own. Even better is to swap those tales over great food. Cooking is both a pleasure and renewing ritual and good eating is the just reward. I grow some of the ingredients in my Brooklyn garden, a cool little hideaway that brings the elements a little closer amidst all the hard city edges.
What I’m doing with my life
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Looking to make every day count.
I’m really good at
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Funny accents, cooking, fishing, jumping off docks, cutting mangoes, bicycling through city streets without putting my foot down.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Charm, wit, intelligence, and a prominent nose.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read much history and historical fiction. Robert Caro, Alan Furst, Le Carre, Graham Greene, William Boyd. Others: Richard Ford, Ann Patchett , Paul Auster, T.C. Boyle, ….ee cummings, Billy Collins, Mary Oliver, Loise Gluck.

….The Third Man, Stories We Tell, Beasts of the Southern Wild, A Hard Days Night, The Fog of War, Godfather, To Kill A Mockingbird, Dr. Strangelove, The Magnificent Ambersons.... Many indie films, Breaking Bad, The Daily Show, Colbert,

Music- a driving force in my life with a weakness for ladies like Gillian Welch, Bonnie Raitt, Adele, Shawn Colvin and Lucinda Williams, Patty Griffin. Much rock and alt rock- Jeff Tweady, The Stones, Richard Thompson, Steve Earle, The Civil Wars,The New Pornographers, Rev Gary Davis, Bach, Schuman, Handel.....

Food is life. I am a happy omnivore. Big on Chinese via the 3 NYC Chinatowns. Increasingly, the ripe fruits and vegetables of the season. A perfect tomato or peach is equal to the best of any food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
cooking & eating
my kids
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what's for dinner?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a film, listening to music, cooking dinner for friends, out and about, decompressing, on my way out of town
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 34–52
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
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