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  • Ages 34-55
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5' 10" (1.78m)
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Has kid(s)
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English (Fluently), Danish (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
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I’m a positive, easy going, and reasonably intelligent person. I'm outgoing and will talk with anyone. Others think I'm funny and I have to say I often see things through a humorous lens, though I care deeply and keep informed about political and social issues.
Music, film, painting, theater keep my creative sensibilities fed. Photography is my main artistic and professional mainstay. Although I’m city born and love it here, particularly Brooklyn, I am very happy to camp in the backwoods, kayaking, snowboarding being by the ocean.

The love of stories – hearing them and telling them, is a big part of me. I’ve done that in photography, books, and film, but I’d just as soon hear one told to me as tell my own. Even better is to swap those tales over great food. Cooking is both a pleasure and renewing ritual and good eating is the just reward. I grow some of the ingredients in my Brooklyn garden, a cool little hideaway that brings the elements a little closer amidst all the hard city edges.
What I’m doing with my life
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Looking to make every day count.
I’m really good at
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funny accents
jumping off docks
pasta a la carbonara
bicycling through city streets without putting my foot down
corny puns
finding good restaurants hidden in fast food america
The first things people usually notice about me
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Charm, wit, intelligence, ...and modesty.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read much history and historical fiction. Robert Caro, Alan Furst, Le Carre, Graham Greene, William Boyd. Others: Richard Ford, Ann Patchett , Paul Auster, T.C. Boyle, ….ee cummings, Louise Gluck, Billy Collins, Mary Oliver .

I try to keep up with the New Yorker. The Times, every day.

film …Boyhood, Birdman, The Third Man, Stories We Tell, Beasts of the Southern Wild, A Hard Days Night, The Fog of War, Godfather, To Kill A Mockingbird, Dr. Strangelove, The Magnificent Ambersons.... Many indie films

Breaking Bad, Mad Men, The Daily Show,

Music- a driving force in my life with a weakness for ladies like Gillian Welch, Bonnie Raitt, Adele, Shawn Colvin and Lucinda Williams, Patty Griffin. Much rock and alt rock- Jeff Tweady, The Stones, Richard Thompson, The Shins, Steve Earle, The Civil Wars,The New Pornographers, Rev Gary Davis, Bach, Schuman, Handel.....

Food is life. I am a happy omnivore. Big on Chinese via the 3 NYC Chinatowns. Increasingly, the ripe fruits and vegetables of the season. A perfect tomato or peach is equal to the best of any food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
cooking & eating
my kids
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what's for dinner?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a film, listening to music, cooking dinner for friends, out and about, decompressing, on my way out of town
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