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63 Newburgh, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 55-65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:30am
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Average build
Other but it’s not important
High school
Has kid(s)
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Something tells me I'm not going to find someone to share love with until I get off my butt. I'm honestly not lazy, just not in a hurry.

A beautiful relationship does not depend upon how good we understand someone but on how well we avoid misunderstandings.

I'm looking for my last first date, but I'm still struggling to get past my first last date. Please don't be put off if you've seen me on this site for quite a while. It's free, and I'm in no rush, so I have nothing to lose being here. I want to meet someone who becomes part of the rest of my life, but it has to be the right person, not just any person. I've met a few very nice ladies here, but why do they say they are interested and then not show it? I thought that was a guy thing. I confess to not being very proactive, but if I am interested, I show it, but I don't chase. I believe I am a very honest person and I expect the same. Is that too much?

I'm not sure if anyone actually reads these profiles or do they just check out the pictures to see if there's any chemistry? In the interest of full disclosure, I've been married three times, divorced twice and widowed once, two adult sons from my first marriage, but no other kids. I love my family, but they're all a long way away. Although born in the UK, I am now a US Citizen (dual in fact).

As you can see, I'm not very good at relationships, but I haven't quite given up yet, as I believe I have a lot of love to give the right person (just ask my dog). I'm a bit slow in coming forward, but will be more enthusiastic if I'm comfortable with the chemistry. It's not lack of interest, it's just caution. You're never too old to get hurt. A lady should always be treated like a lady. I was brought up to show respect and I believe I do that.

To be honest, being a steady reliable guy, I would have thought that means something. All I ask really is for you to be presentable and not too far away. Since I commute at least 80 miles daily, I tend to shy away from doing the same in a relationship, which is why I'd prefer to keep it within 25 miles if possible. There will always be exceptions of course. I'm very neat (domesticated) and I try to dress well, even if it's in jeans or shorts. I'm told my smile is my best feature. I get on well with most people and am considered friendly and outgoing, as well as being very affectionate. I'm capable of letting my hair down, but you'd need to use your imagination for that (see photo). I can listen as well as talk and know how to put the seat back down. I'm also spontaneous, although that hasn't been tested for a while. I like drives to nowhere and all kinds of music except rap (is that music?). I enjoy dancing and being in the outdoors, especially when the sun is out when I can sit in the yard and read, although I can happily sit and watch a good sitcom on tv. Cuddling on the sofa with a glass of wine and watching a good comedy has to be one of my favorite things, except when the sun is shining of course. I purchased a set of golf clubs last summer but I don't get much opportunity to play as I don't have a partner, or a handicap. Could that be you (the partner not the handicap)? If you have an interest that I haven't listed, don't assume I'm not. I may have just not tried it yet. Also, I don't expect you to necessarily join in my interests. Each to our own.

I want to do stuff, and it' no fun doing stuff on your own.

Remember: Don't judge a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes. By then, you are a mile away and you have his shoes.
No animals were harmed in the making of this profile.

I just realized some of my photos are getting old, so I'll update soon, but my hair style is the same.

Come on, make my day.
What I’m doing with my life
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I currently work for a large real estate company, looking after our support staff, which involves travelling throughout CT and Westchester County. My past careers include time serving in the Royal Navy and the UK Police, so I've seen a fair bit of the world and encountered an interesting cross section of society. I'm an independent thinker.
Once I'm retired, I'd live anywhere in the USA, but prefer it to be warm.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Staying calm.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sun glare off my head, then maybe my smile, or perhaps my accent. Depends how far away you are at first sight.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read mostly non-fiction. I like books by Michio Kaku and Stephen Hawking. Something that educates me and makes me think.
When I go to the movies I want to be entertained, not made miserable. I actually like chick flicks and of course comedies, especially all the Monty Python films, but I do like Bond and other action/adventure movies. I just draw the line at long and boring.
I love all kinds of music apart from rap (is that even music?).
Food has to be spicy. I love Indian food and trips to Chili's.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My dog
Golf (I'm not that good)
More laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The Universe, how we got here and where we're going.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Waiting for YOU.....and you're late!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I admitted it, it wouldn't be private any more.
You should message me if
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You're still awake after reading all of the above....and you're not going to disappear as soon as I reply. Why do people do that? I'm not into one night stands, and I'm sure you're not either.

My aim is that one day you'll think I'm awesome, but you'll never know if you don't contact me.

By the way, I'm not A List, so if you're interested I won't know unless you send me a message.