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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 27
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Post grad
Might want kids
My self-summary
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Creative guy seeks dueting partner for new adventures.

My FIFA rule: Funny Independent Females Apply!

okcupid suggests using my own words to describe myself. I've opted for English... it saves you time learning a new language.

I've asked friends how they would describe me, the general consensus was, 'Bald!' Not exactly what I was hoping for. Although, I admit if you want to run your fingers through my hair then you'll have to start at my chest.

I'm much more than just follicly-challenged. I have a brain that I like to use more than occasionally - you should too.

I have a restless body that wants 'to do' rather than 'to watch' - yours should too.

I have an eye for an independent women that challenges, stimulates and adores me! - you should too. No wait. Scratch that last bit!

I'm sure there's much more I should let you know but I'd rather do that in person over a drink or meal.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm an IT Consultant but don't ask me to fix your computer 'cos I can't. I manage a variety of e-Learning projects and work with highly creative, talented and intelligent people.

But there is more to life than work - or at least there should be - I'm self-employed so I get the chance to take time off during the day to do other things. Currently I'm visiting the Ashmoleum Museum in Oxford once a week, one room each time.

I need a new squash partner, my last one is broken.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
... I can't possibly say that on here.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My deadpan face. I'm sorry but that's it default mode - I am approachable.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Non-fiction: "Dinosaurs in the Haystack" by S.J. Gould. Other authors: O.Sachs, M.Ridley, S.Singh

Fiction: "What's bred in the bone" by Robertson Davies. Other authors: Coben, Cole, Cornwall, Fry, Lodge, Tart - too many!

At the time I watched it, it would have to be "Slinglade" - I must have been in the mood. Otherwise, I like all types of movies except horror.

Love listening to live acoustic music - if you could get Nick Drake, John Martin and Andy McKee to play for me at the Holywell Music Rooms, I'd propose immediately... although I'd also be very wary of you, two out of three of them are dead!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Clothes (well, it would be embarrassing to be naked all the time)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
hmm! Let me think about it some more and I'll get back to you.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...watching a live local band, visiting friends or waiting for the Bat signal - damn! The secret's out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
... I just did that in the 'typical Friday night...' box - I'm really sorry Bruce.
You should message me if
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... you enjoy conversation on a variety of topics; like to go out for meals, music and merriment. Message me, if you want to meet somebody new and see what develops.