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42 M Vernon Rockville, CT

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Ladies and......umm, ladies. Step right up and see the wonderous beauties and oddities that exist behind me. They will intrigue you, inspire you, and at times maybe even surprise you. But as you gaze upon these wonders, always remember, it is what lies in front of me where the true magic lays.

Ok...on to the usual internet dating site, boring but necessary, info.

What am I looking for? I have no idea. But I will know when I find it. At this point though, I am definitely looking for friends first, then see what happens after that. This seems like the only way to make "it" work.
So feel free to stop and chat. I don't bite, and I have no expectations.

I love it. I'm all over the place with my musical likes and influences, from Alice In Chains, Tool, and Rush to Nina Simone, old jazz and blues. I enjoy movies and have some favorite TV shows. I enjoy going out and having fun, concerts, bars here and there, but have to confess to enjoying staying at home and relaxing just as much, if not more.

I have 3 older children. 21, 18 and 14..and as everyone else says, they are my number 1 :)

Random, perhaps surprising, facts:
Music and movies can make me cry fairly easily (no, I'm not trying to show I have a sensitive side..I'm all macho, baby...well, when the time calls for it, anyway ;)
I really do love Lucy and the The Golden Girls and Sanford and Son make me laugh my ass off!
I visit my childhood neighborhood once in a while and walk through and reminisce
I sing like a mad man to heavy metal in the car and have been flipped off because a guy thought I was yelling at him
Love cuddling with a woman on the couch, especially after she's fresh out of the shower and smells like strawberries : ))

Thank you for taking the time to check me out. Hope to hear from you, and if not, best of luck to you!!


She stares at the moon
So familiar and serene
Passing clouds slice it to pieces,

In the lake below
A reflection is seen
Falling rain distorts the picture,

In her window
She wonders aloud
Her lips move but no one hears,
not a sound

The moon in the sky
No longer there to see
The reflection in the lake
a mystery

What is it she speaks
What is it she needs
Her lips move and no one listens
Oh so deafening
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Pretty much in my self summary...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a dad..I hope : )
The first things people usually notice about me
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You'll have to tell me. I never asked anyone before.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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All Stephen King and Dean Koontz.

The movie list could go on forever, but I grew up a huge Aronld fan, so all of his 80s, and early 90s stuff is on my list. But I would also add, Braveheart, Scent of a Woman, Pans Labrynth...and on and on and on....

And music...I could go on forever..I like Nina Simone..I like Tool and Iron Maiden...and everything in between. Rush is probably my all time favorite band though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids
My guitars
My smartphone
A car
A job
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
This is a loaded question...but Ill keep it nice and kids.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully playing at a bar with my band.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not much I wouldn't share with ya if you ask.
You should message me if
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