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  • Ages 24-34
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5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Atheism and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Hey fellow Americans! I live in Germany but am visiting and relaxing with my family over the Thanksgiving holidays after a 4 day conference on decision making in Chicago. I don't have any plans for the next 10 days except to enjoy lots of food, microbrews - and oh yeah I need to find a new pair of hip glasses..

Hi. I'm Nathaniel. You've stumbled upon my OKC page. Welcome. Pull up a chair. Pour yourself a glass of wine. Stay a while.

I am a three course meal served in a hidden speakeasy cellar with no obvious entrance save for a blurry window and the faint sound of an upright bass.

Appetisers: Street / portrait photography, hiking, and travelling

Main dish: Scientist studying human behavior. Research, teaching, conference presentations, all that good stuff.

Dessert: Lots of vegetarian cooking. I make a pretty amazing chocolate cake.

Apéritif: Cognac and a well-made horror film (like "It Follows")
What I’m doing with my life
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Travelling around the world chasing my dream (fantasy?) of becoming a psychology professor. I am also on a mission to find the world's best chocolate chip cookie recipe.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Lighting up a room. Every time I change jobs, a former colleague inevitably says it's "not the same" without me there. That's pretty much the best compliment I could ever get and I'll try to keep them coming!

Also discovering online videos. I've pretty much seen every video on the internet. Here's my latest favorite about the start of computerised dating in the 1960s. It's 14 minutes of sheer nostalgia and nerdy joy. If this doesn't bring a smile to your face then we're probably not a good match ;)

I like to make predictions. I predict that you are currently in one of these three states:

1. You're at a bar at the start of the night drinking gin and tonics with your girlfriends. You're checking out the local guys on OKC and laughing at all the terrible messages you get.

2. It's past midnight. You're in your bedroom. You just got home from a party and didn't have quite the social connections you had hoped for. Let's see if OKC fixes that!

3. Sitting on the toilet swiping away to distract you from the task at hand.

Was I right??
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hmmm, you'd have to ask them. But probably that I smile a lot and am easily distracted by animals and babies. I call every dog I see a puppy even if he's 13 years old because I don't want him to think that I love him any less. People laugh at me and say they don't know the difference but they do...they do.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Catch-22 and anything by Paul Auster. I have to admit I have a hard time finding books I truly love, though not through lack of trying.

Movies: Too many to list! But Tarantino and Scorcese are both good starts. I think The Goonies, Back to the Future, It Follows, There Will Be Blood and Inglourious Basterds, and Star Wars Episode V: The Empire Strikes Back, are flawless films from beginning to end. I just saw and loved the film "Love and Mercy" about Brian Wilson of the Beach Boys. I always thought the Beach Boys were kind of lame but now I'm a huge fan.

Shows: Seinfeld, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Breaking Bad, Firefly, X-Files, Star Trek the Next Generation, Game of Thrones, Faulty Towers

Music: Mostly indie and folk rock, with occasional hard rock (I can listen to Tool for hours...) and electronic music to get me pumped up for working out or going out. My record for listening to the same song in one day is around 20 - Mr. Brightside. That's just a damn fine pop song.

Food: Self-critical vegan. I cook and eat vegan, but I'm really not hardcore about it -yes, yes, I know I wear leather and eat Gummibärchen when I've had a few beers!!.

I have been allergic to milk since birth - and yes, a couple years ago I finally brought up the courage to ask my mom if I was successfully breast fed and she said "oh sure!". So I've got that nice mental image burned into my brain now.

I stopped eating meat about 10 years ago for many reasons (environmental, economic, ethical). But if other people choose to eat meat that's totally fine with me. In fact, I might even prefer to not date another vegan just so we don't look like some crazy vegan couple :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
salt. Heaps and heaps of salt. Also constant access to water - I'm sure these are totally unrelated...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My three nephews. They're growing up so fast back in the states and they pretty much only know me from Skype. But we're working on the long-distance relationship.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Shaking my fist at the teenagers drinking outside my flat for making me jealous that I have to work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a scar...downstairs. My mom used to threaten to tell my dates about it in high school if I didn't clean my room.

Also my friends say that I write too much in my OKC profile and come off as too 'nice' - but I decided it's better you know that I'm nice now rather than to discover it awkwardly on our first date.
You should message me if
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If you have a dog. Or if you're Jennifer Lawrence.

If you're Jennifer Lawrence and you have a dog then please don't write me because I'll just have a heart attack.