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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26-42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Aug 4
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Catholicism and laughing about it
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've spent twenty years in and around kitchens. This is a large part of who I am. I try not to offend people with my particular brand of snark.... and mostly succeed. I've found that other industry folk fare better than most. When out of work, I cook food, brew beer, garden, forage, and generally avoid being indoors.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a chef in Boston (an actual chef, not just a title with a clipboard). I cook, I seek out amazing new food, I brew and forage. I read quirky sci-fi when I have the time, and listen to entirely too many audiobooks (because, apparently, it's not a good idea to read and drive).

I am happily married to an amazing woman. We have a beautiful daughter who is funny, way too smart for *my* own good, and all around amazing.

My wife and I are exploring an open arrangement. Er... and I realize that may mean different things for different people, so let me explain a bit. I am interested in meeting new people, hanging out, talking about life, the universe and everything, trying new restaurants, finding great dive bars, and making fun of hipsters. Seriously. I am *not* looking for a playmate, hook-up, or the next ok-cupid-horror-story. If there's anything else you'd like to know, just ask- I'm an open book... or maybe a well-illustrated manga or graphic novel. Anyway, just ask!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Most things that use my hands and brain.
I'm an avid gardener; at least, I try to be. I largely brew all the beer I drink. I still play with Legos whenever I have an opportunity. Oh, and I can procrastinate like no other.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People tell me I smirk a lot. I think that's probably because I'm about to say something sarcastic or snarky.

My car. Really. It's a fully restored, dropped, matte black '56 Beetle. Her name is Sue - after the T-rex skeleton at the Field Museum in Chicago.

Oh, and I can't spell my way out of a wet paper bag. Thank you, spell-check.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything from the Hitchhikers series, the Dresden Files, Nevada Barr, Christopher Moore. I am hopelessly addicted to audio books.

Sherlock, supernatural, grimm, firefly,
I really don't watch much TV

I listen to almost everything; from Thievery to zero7 Moe. and Glactic some old rap and even a bit of country.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In completely no order!
1. Green spaces
2. My tools (knives and hand)
3. My family
4. My zombie dinosaur car
5. Coffee
6. Good food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Good food. . . Pure and simple
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At work, on the line, ensuring that my diners are enjoying their Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I absolutely hate dunkin donuts. Really awful coffee
You should message me if
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If you enjoy good food, snarky banter, have worked in the restaurant industry and "get it," and can build cool things with Legos.

If you'd like to grab a beer and chat, or better yet, make some beer.

If your aren't frightened by cooking with a chef and would like to collaborate on dinner together.