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32 Santa Clara, CA Man


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  • Ages 21-34
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My details

Last online
Nov 29
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm a laid back kind of guy. I'm not quick to anger but can be passionate and anyone who knows me will tell you I'm a nice, courteous person. I'm usually somewhat reserved and quiet around people I haven't gotten to know yet, though lately I've learned to not care as much about being judged as long as I'm happy with how I carry mysef in creed and conduct. However, I am a good listener. I don't party and club really, though I may go out for drinks now and then. I'm pursuing a career in law enforcement so I of course believe in obeying the law, I'm pretty much a straight arrow nice guy, so if you're looking for the "bad boy" look elsewhere. That being said, I'm not super critical or judgey about it nor do I put myself on some high horse.

I end up spending a lot of time at home but I do like to get out and do new things, so I'm looking for someone that will push me to get out and do things but can also chill regularly. I'm definitely a pet person. Right now I have two cats but grew up with both cats and dogs (labs) and miss having one.

I'm a gamer, bowler, sports fiend. I'm a die hard A's fan and have season tickets (don't worry giants fans, I still root for the giants just not nearly as much and not when playing the A's). Basically all bay area sports teams but the A's are #1.

I consider myself a middle of the road kind of person, politically and about social values. I'd say I'm mostly liberal, but I strongly believe in a strong military and the 2nd amendment. I'm always game for rational political discussion, but keeping it civil with mutual respect.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have a degree in Criminal Justice and I'm currently pursuing a career in law enforcement. Currently working in a global security operations center for a tech company.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm an avid bowler and my average is hovering around 200.

Building things that come disassembled (and reading instruction manuals that don't make much sense.) IKEA does not scare me haha.

Cuddling and keeping you warm. I've been designated a personal body heater in past relationships :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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How much I look like my father if they know him. Or that I'm an A's fan due to the fact that I'm usually wearing some A's apparel haha.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I greatly enjoy reading. I probably read 3-4 books a month. I mostly read sci-fi novels and fantasy novels. Anything by David Weber or John Ringo. John Scalzi and Heinlein are good. And of course Tolkein.

Movies: Action and Sci-Fi are my go-to movies. The rise in popularity of comic book hero movies has been fun to watch. If you ask me to choose between Star Trek or Star Wars for favorite franchise, I'd have to go Star Wars, but trek is good too. I'm not afraid to branch out and dramas and comedies are fun. I'm not a harsh movie critic, so it has to be really really bad for me to hate it.

TV: My favorite currently running shows that I actively look forward to each week are The Flash, Game of Thrones, The Amazing Race, NCIS, Bones. I could go on, I watch a lot of shows that run the gamut of genres.

Music: I have and listen to all kinds of music, from classical orchestra to hip hop. country is probably what I listen to the least, but not because I dislike it - it's just not my first choice. I mostly like rock/metal. All time favorite is Metallica, followed by Disturbed. Lately I've been all about bands with women vocalists, Halestorm, In this Moment, The Pretty Reckless etc.. I also love pretty much all 80s music.

Food: I like a wide variety of foods from different cultures. I can't handle very spicy foods so Indian is not one I try often. My best dining experience was Fogo de Chao, a brazilian steak house on santana row in San Jose. The food is amazing and the service is second to none. I'm always down for a good mushroom burger and I think the local Chipotle workers recognize me. Can't pass up a good burrito or good Chinese place.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Not in a priority order but:

1. Family
2. Internet
3. Being able to watch my A's & Sharks!
4. Being able to exercise my 2A rights.
5. A good book to read.
6. my friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Planning out what I want to get done during that day.
What my next move for my career goals should be.
Things I enjoy
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either at an A's game, at a new movie, or at home relaxing.
You should message me if
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If you're not one of those girls that thrives on drama in a relationship. If you're a kind hearted woman tired of jerks and all the BS looking for a good guy. If you have a passion for any of the following: sports, games, movies, happiness.