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34 • Copenhagen, Denmark • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–35
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Dec 20
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body Type
- Strictly anything
- Atheism, and very serious about it
- Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Less than $20,000
- Relationship Status
- Seeing Someone
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Danish (Fluently), Swedish (Okay), German (Okay), French (Poorly)
Love, in the form of romance: I would include sex in this, since I want to love whoever I'm having sex with. That's not to say I can't have sex I regret, or experience sexual pleasure without "my heart being in it" (Oxytocin is what it is after all), but I dream of having lots and lots of sex in the context of romance, not just having lots and lots of sex. Not that I'm a happily-ever-after kinda guy; I don't expect a relationship to neccesarily last forever for it to be "worthwhile", but I want my heart to be in it, while I'm in it.
Music: Both listening and performing. That I could never live without.
My nieces and nephews, who I love as though they were my own children. I sometimes fantasize about living in a far off land, starting from scratch and making an exciting new life for myself there, and when I think of my family and friends, my heart breaks a little, but I could see myself leaving them behind, and only seeing them for the holidays and such. But when my thoughts go to my 6 nieces and 3 nephews, I cannot bear the thought of not seeing them grow up. I've grown too close to all of them.
That's only four, but those are the important ones. I suppose I couldn't live without a comfy bed either, and a modecum of leasure-time: I don't live to work, I work to live.
In the third case: an actual relationship, the same applies, but if you are from Copenhagen, Denmark or there abouts, I am not opposed to meeting up some day, if the weather permits.
IMPORTANT UPDATE: I just realized something! Most women on here get bombarded, I'm sure, with little: "How you doin'?" texts. It must be hell to sort through them all, and most of you must get really tired of all the bullshit.
But It's hard and long work to read through every profile, try to get to know each woman's quirks, and take the time to write a original, long, and serious message, but I always do, because not only does "How you doin'?" not work (you all, rightfully, ignore those), but I also don't wanna be that guy.
But when YOU write ME just the smallest text, even sometimes just when you visit my profile (I get, like 4 per day, how many do you get?), I feel so thrilled, and want to write you back, just because you showed an interest in me. So please, write me nothing more than: "I like your profile", and you will make my day. Maybe you get tons of those, but we guys don't, so think about that the next time you visit a guy's profile. If you like him, tell him!
If you don't like initiating, because you think it's the guy's job, think about it like this: It's like if we were at a party together, and you kinda liked how I looked, or what I was talking about, then you could just try to get eye-contact with me, hold it for a moment and smile, and then look away. You're still leaving it to me to walk over to you and initiate conversation, but you just sent me a subtle cue that you might be interested. This means alot to us guys, because even confident men like myself still need a little signal from you that you are actually interested. I consider myself a swell guy, but I'm not so full of myself as to think you ALL secretly want me.
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