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RockstarHealer

45 / M / Straight / Single

Great Neck, New York

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:19pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Be who you are, fully and authentically, and amazing people will show up and surround you with the most incredible reflections.

I'm a pretty simple guy . . . I do both music and healing work (body/energy work, coaching, teaching movement) for a living, and I follow the beat of my own drum. I'm not always up on what's happening in the mainstream, being much more likely to be tuning in to what's going on within, or to the people close to me, and taking my cues from there. Not that I don't read, or pay attention to the outside world . . but the mainstream narrative is something I'm quite comfortable leaving alone!

I'm passionate about growth, process, expansion, and even passion itself. I tend to let things happen in the now, moment by moment.

Same goes for relationships. You can't plan them . . but can only allow them to unfold over time.

People tell me I have a warm and nourishing energy.

I am deep, sensual, and inquisitive
What I’m doing with my life
Playing music with 4 different bands, finding inspiration wherever and whenever possible, teaching movement and energy work, coaching others in unraveling and getting down to the core, and being as physically incarnate as possible while still remaining spiritual.

Oh yes . . and learning. Constantly.
I’m really good at
Eye contact, kissing, and deep listening, to name a few. Singing, playing piano/keys . . . I think I tend to be good at whatever really captures my interest/imagination. A short list might be: Music, photography, healing touch, sailing, intimate conversation, massage, writing / editing (both in word and sound) . . being authentic.
The first things people usually notice about me
Deep eyes, perhaps. Or maybe it's the fact that I'm making direct eye contact. Some say it's more about the feeling I give than anything else . . they say I can be pretty calming/relaxing. And then some people call me "intense". Your mileage may vary!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
It's been a long while since I've read any fiction, but I've been into everything ranging from Douglas Adams to John Clancy. These days I tend to dive into books on growth, metaphysics, and spirituality. You know . . real life :)

Movies . . some of my old faves are Labyrinth, Young Frankenstein, Waking Life and The Little Prince. I recently saw Samsara and really loved it. Moonrise Kingdom was a lot of fun too. One that someone showed me not long ago, was Shortbus. Anyone seen that one?

I'm into just about any and all music, with the exception of most pop, and some country, and I have a passion for both classic and progressive rock. I like music that sounds -real- as opposed to mechanized or pre-packaged. I also especially like listening to music I've never heard. You'll generally find my car stereo on either 90.7 WFUV, or Q104.3

My eating habits are mainly vegetarian with some fish as well. Veg-aquarian perhaps?
The six things I could never do without
Air to breathe
Food and Water
Room to move, dance, and play
Space to explore and skin to touch.
Long periods of deep stillness / silence

and often for about one week a year, playa dust ;-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
..how to think less!
..ways to be even more fully myself.
..what my life will look like next year . . or next week!
..things like this . . http://goo.gl/EeHgH
On a typical Friday night I am
playing with an awesome rock band . . or dancing and dining with an amazing community of movers and shakers . . or maybe even just staying in enjoying the silence of a moment to myself. mmm...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a little bit poly . .
. . and a little bit rock'n'roll!

I'm incredibly selective as to who I choose to connect with . . And am fiercely loyal to those who'll meet me in that deeper place.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
. . . if you're inspired to. If you're inspiring! If you're able meet me on many levels. If you think you can meet in the intensity of the moment, and then let it build for a while.

I should also mention here that whatever "age range" I specified above, I'm open to connecting with people of all ages. So if something really clicks with you here, and you feel drawn to come say hi, please do. I don't bite. Much.

If any of this resonates, I look forward to the conversation.