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38 New York, NY Man


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  • Ages 18–49
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  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has cats

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My self-summary
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I am Italian and Greek, 5'6" 130 lbs. I am an avid reader, a movie buff, and a lover of all kinds of music. I like going to museums and walking in Central Park.

I love graphic novels, comic books, Greek mythology, Texas Hold'em, and the original Nintendo. We have a Wii, but my girlfriend's more into that than I am.

Oh yeah, my girlfriend is roesmoker. We are both bi and polyamorous. We date other people on our own, but also may be open to swinging. She is a musician and I am trying to be a stand-up comedian. We go to open mics a lot.

Favorite quote (I'm not an Objectivist, I just like the quote. Everyone I knew at the time went through an Ayn Rand phase in college. More recently, I joined Occupy Wall Street.):
"My philosophy, in essence, is the concept of man as a heroic being, with his own happiness as the moral purpose of his life, with productive achievement as his noblest activity, and reason as his only absolute."
- Ayn Rand, Appendix to Atlas Shrugged

Song of the moment/week/year:

Everyday it's a-gettin closer
Going faster than a roller coaster
Love like yours will surely come my way a-hey, a-hey hey

Everyday it's a-gettin faster
Everyone said go ahead and ask her
Love like yours will surely come my way a-hey, a-hey hey

Everyday seems a little longer
Every way love's a little stronger
Come what may, do you ever long for
True love from me?
-Buddy Holly

I am insightful, quiet, and random.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have a Masters in Library Science and worked full time in an archive for 4 years, but I am now unemployed.

I joined Occupy Wall Street about a month into it, October 2011. I was involved only peripherally due to laziness and the unwillingness to get arrested. I no longer really go to much in the way of protests outside the occasional benefit show. If you are more involved or less involved, that's cool. Just don't bash it if you know nothing about it.

I am currently trying to be a stand-up comedian. I am also a poet and have performed poetry in front of an audience. I haven't been booked on any shows yet but I go to a couple of open mics a week.

I always try to do that which will make me as happy as possible for as long as possible. Of course, sometimes thinking about this too much can interfere with the enjoyment of a given moment. There is a time for thinking and planning, and a time for saying the f--k with it and just letting yourself go.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening, organizing information, debating philosophy, reading, NES games, spelling and grammar.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm skinny. Or my glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Please note this is a very partial list. I have very eclectic tastes. If I don't list your favorite thing, ask me, I probably like it.

Authors: Ayn Rand, Stephen King, George RR Martin, Kurt Vonnegut, Robert Heinlein, Jack Kerouac, Allen Ginsberg, William S. Burroughs, Frank Miller, Alan Moore, Neil Gaiman, Dante, Nietzsche, Plato, Isaac Asimov, Frank Herbert, Tolkien, David Foster Wallace, Mark Danielewski, Shakespeare, Douglas Adams, Hunter S. Thompson, Orwell, Aldous Huxley, Ray Bradbury, Ken Kesey, Tom Wolfe, Albert Camus, William Goldman, William Golding, Joseph Heller.

Movies: Apocalypse Now, MASH, Dirty Harry, The Good The Bad and The Ugly, Unforgiven, The Godfather trilogy, Scarface, Goodfellas, Taxi Driver, The Graduate, Batman Begins, The Dark Knight, The Stand, Star Wars trilogy (if you're a fan, you know which trilogy is better), A Bronx Tale, Warriors, Shaft (both Roundtree and Samuel L. versions), LotR trilogy, Princess Bride, Reservoir Dogs, 2001, A Clockwork Orange, Rocky I-IV (V not so much, VI was better than V, but the first 4 were still better), Shakespeare in Love, Rosencrantz and Guildenstern are Dead, Shawshank Redemption, Casablanca, Amadeus, Blade Runner, The Doors movie, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Trainspotting, Hitchcock movies, the various incarnations of Lord of the Flies, Dr. Strangelove, Mel Brooks movies, Death Wish I-whatever it went up to.

Music: Doors, Pink Floyd, Jimi Hendrix, Bob Marley, Leonard Cohen, Beatles, Rolling Stones, The Who, Led Zeppelin, Robert Johnson, Muddy Waters, Eric Clapton, BB King, Bruce Springsteen, Billy Joel, Green Day, Pearl Jam, Nirvana, Bob Dylan, Violent Femmes, Morphine, Dave Matthews, Phish, Grateful Dead, Metallica, God Street Wine, Run DMC, Beastie Boys, Louis Armstrong, Miles Davis, John Coltrane, Charlie Parker, Beethoven, Mozart, Bach, Stravinski, Wagner, Paul Simon (with and w/o Garfunkel), Johnny Cash, Beach Boys, Tom Petty, John Lee Hooker, Lou Reed (w & w/o the Underground), Tom Waits.

Some TV shows I've liked in the past and present: Stargate, Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, Dexter, Heroes, ER, House, Lie To Me, Mentalist, Castle, Supernatural, Smallville, Terminator, Numbers, Fringe, My Own Worst Enemy, The Unit, Boston Legal, CSI NY, football. Honorable Mention: Prison Break, Criminal Minds, Flashpoint

Food: pasta, spanakopita (that's spinach pie for you non-Greeks, but it doesn't taste like spinach. Trust me, it's good.), Thai, seafood (calimari and shrimp are my favorites), sushi, chicken.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my glasses, books, music, air, food, and water.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
philosophy, all aspects of my life

What to say in an initial email to someone on OKCupid.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
chilling at home or going out if I have something specific planned, like a friend or relative is having a party or I want to see a movie or a show.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I hate the idea of dying. Death doesn't really upset me, but the idea of not existing anymore kind of annoys the hell out of me. Although they are irrational, I can understand why people cling to the idea of an afterlife. This is why I will never understand why people commit suicide, and why I have little sympathy for those who do. They are perfectly free to do so, but I have no sympathy for them.

Perhaps paradoxically, the authors/artists/musicians/etc. I am most attracted to often seem to be self-destructive.
You should message me if
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You like what you've seen so far or I have messaged you.

You want to have some fun with a cute bi couple. My girlfriend is roesmoker. We are looking for couples and select singles to play with in addition to dating on our own.

If you want to play with both of us, it is important to know that my girlfriend is very vanilla. She is bisexual, but doesn't like giving or seeing blowjobs and is not at all kinky.

If you are interested in me by myself, I am kinky and I love going down on both sexes.