Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I’m a professional, handsome, youthful guy looking to meet other
guys with similar interests to see what develops. Whether it’s a
long-term relationship or a friend, both would be welcomed.
I’m originally from Chicago, which is a city that instills the
value of close friends and relationships (especially in the
winter). Both of these remain very important to me even after
living 9 years here in the bay area. I’m still learning about what
San Francisco has to offer. I’ve just recently discovered the live
music scene, all types from rock to classical. Two other favorite
things, food and wine, I found before I moved here. I always enjoy
a weekend in wine country exploring new wineries. I love to travel
and it would be nice to find someone to explore the world with. I
am a scuba diver so part of the world I like to explore lies under
the surface of the water.
My personality and life style tends not to fall into that of the
typical gay guy’s. I am gay, but that fact does not define me. I’m
not afraid of hard work in the office or in a friend’s vineyard. I
am as comfortable sleeping in a tent as sleeping in a fancy
I have worked in the pharmaceutical/medical device industry for 18
years, which translates into being health conscience. I enjoy
exercise, but I’m not a gym rat. With everything in life, a balance
must be found. Work/pleasure, soberness/bacchanal, all should be
A person I would feel a connection with would understand this and
would be a balanced guy who is self-confident and is not afraid to
be himself. He should want to teach me new things that he is
excited about as well as wanting to learn from what excites me. He
should value trust and loyalty, as these are the things that
relationships are founded upon. He should also be comfortable with
his sensual side and not be afraid to give or receive
Send me a note if any of this hits home. Who knows what may
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying it. My goal is not to live my life as others think I
should, but as I want to!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Problem solving - I work well in a crisis, probably should have
been a paramedic.
Paring wine and food - I have a great palate, dinner parties at my
place are what my close friends wait for.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Puscifer, Diamonda Galas, Sleigh Bells, Explosions in the Sky,
Partricia Barber, Godspeed you Black Emperor, Colin Stetson, Dead
Can Dance, Soulfly, Wesley Morgan, Peter Gabriel, Amon Tobin
Just getting back into collecting vinyl records. They sound great
on a good turntable!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music - A day without music is the definition of being dead.
My Passport - One of two required items for traveling.
Mastercard or Visa - The other required item for traveling. As long
as you have your Passport and a chargecard, you can get what you
need along the way.
Love of life - Life would be boring otherwise.
My friends/family - The best support and happiness factor in life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where my next vacation will be. There is a huge world out there to
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
So exhausted! I love using Friday night as a night to light the
fireplace curl up on the couch for a movie. But, more than willing
to meet up with friends or go to a concert if it's happening.
You should message me if
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