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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45–65
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 4:06am
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
A little extra
Ph.D program
Art / Music / Writing
Has a kid
English, Dutch, German, French (Okay), Afrikaans (Okay)
My self-summary
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Who I am? I am a writer. Oh no, not a famous novelist. There are plenty of great novelists here, which is - like we all know - not a place to be modest. I write all kinds of text. I am a nice guy, grizzly-shaped, not quite stupid, with comfortable broad shoulders. Positively tuned, fun loving, integer, adventurous, emphatic. I have a deep bass to whisper naughty things in your ear. I read too much to be conservative or narrow-minded and wrote too much to believe in everything that’s written. And, oh yes, I have an incurable sense for erotics, so decent ladies be warned.

What I like is finding the girl you once were under your skin of adulthood. I promise you to be the boy I have always been. And so, being boy and girl, let's discover and play. Believe me, that's the best people can do. Good old Friedrich Schiller said that in 1795: Der Mensch is nur da ganz Mensch wo er spielt (human beings are only fully human when they play). Give the play the name you want: date, love, friendship. It doesn't matter but live and play.
What I’m doing with my life
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Staring at the ceiling as if the numerous spiders there may suddenly become the words I am looking for. Drinking coffee. Not picking up my mobile because the text I promised isn't ready yet. Thinking about stories or a novel I have in mind. Knowing that it will always stay there until someone says that I must write that heap of paper now. In need of a loving boost sometimes or a boost of love to be creative. Always longing to your mind, craving to your body to take another drink from that fountain of youth.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am good in writing for you only, vacuum cleaning, mess making, endless talks, endless oral things... Doing the dishes, hindering you when you are doing the dishes, caressing your hair. I am not a cook but a good eater.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Ask them. Find myself a gorilla but they never ran away. Always feel a need to calm down my visitors, talking very friendly and sophisticated as if I were a gentleman. Say something funny to clear the air. Sometimes this works so well they stay.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I am a former book publisher. I know how books are made, both as a product and as an object to market and sell. Believe me, that’s not good for your opinion about books and literature. But I read quite a lot.

I love old baroque, old Gregorian, dramatic religious passion music, the great composers and then it suddenly stops. Modern experimental classic music is not for me. I rather listen to good rock, where good is what I like. Too much to list here or I forgot names and numbers.

I hate movies in which violence should mask the lack of quality, bad acting, idiot story line. Wish I could see the old deadly slow but very esthetic Italian movies. Like television series like MASH and Allo, allo. Was deeply impressed by Band of Brothers. And sometimes I like watching movies with you I don't want to name here. Yes, with you!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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... is that a woman's feet and toes are in erogenous respect her most neglected area's. For a bold tongue an excellent place to start a discovery journey along all your exciting hidden hot spots. Yes, yours! You have more than you know.
You should message me if
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... you are a woman with a generous laughter, incomprehensible female sensitivity, moods. A real one, yes, with soft curves, girly shyness, yummy too thick creamy thighs. Always hesitating whether to stay independent or become attached – the paradox of modern women and men - bit clever and deliciously indecent. Who likes reading and writing and dating with me. And who is feeling that smoldering temper that can be brought to flame by passionate kisses.
... if you are speechless. No kidding, you should message me anyway. Certainly you! I like getting messages.