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56 Costa Mesa, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 40-60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 8:20pm
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Christianity but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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I'm just as comfortable in a little black dress as I am in .....wait, damn. I’ve been reading too many profiles. Let's start again....

Hi, I'm Steve -- and I'm a one-stop shop for character, care, constancy, culture, cuisine – and a touch of comedy - and you would make my day if you were something of the same (with key bodily differences).

I hope you’ve had bad judgment in the past. Why? Because I know this to be true: good judgment comes from experience -- and experience comes from bad judgment. That’s how we grow. So I’m only looking for you if you have had crappy judgment in the past (I'm talking relationships not jailhouse tattoos and rap sheets)! And if, as a happy result of unhappy experiences, you have gained wisdom and humor from it all. God knows, I have.

Here's what's going to turn me on about you: you are deep. You are creative. You appreciate chivalry. You not only appreciate the arts, you inhale them, you are inspired by them and, like me, you hunger for new sensations and new experiences. You demonstrate infinite intelligence because you think I'm a riot and we only stop laughing when we start kissing. (And there may be a little overlap there). You prefer drama on the big screen rather than in the living room, and so, like me, you love to communicate directly and compassionately, so the emotional build-up of negative drama never gets a foothold. What a relief, no? It’s such a better way to live.

Here’s my alternative and tell me if you’re on board… instead of “drama,” we focus on creatively creating passion. More on that after the third date – if you’re good… (or bad).

I'm an honest, authentic debt-free man truly seeking my one inspirational life partner....

Write me, and let’s explore…
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a cub journalist and gossip columnist at heart. I am lucky enough to play that role with corporate pay and bennies. Weekends are spent indulging my senses and my brain. And maybe my body when I make it to an exercise class. Perhaps you will impress me enough to inspire me to take up ballroom dancing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Humor, going places and looking at stuff, avoiding clichés, knowing things, public speaking, busting a few moves, surprising you.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A shock of gray hair that will strike fear in the hearts of scissors everywhere.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Cohen Bros., film noir, Great American Songbook, old timey music, Chinatown (the movie - my fave), mid-century modern, BBC productions
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Wine, women and song. Coffee. Wit and lit.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Art, beauty, life, cuisine, creativity, composition. Hey, there's another six things. If I have to face silly rules, I may as well have fun with them. Do you?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Chillin' with a fat red wine, good reads, meeting you if the fates will allow.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm Elvis and I'm back.
You should message me if
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You're a well kept secret and off the beaten path.