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37 Aurora, CO Man


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  • Ages 23–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:20am
Native American, White
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Has kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm a divorced father of 2. I'm ex-Army, where I started as Infantry, and then started doing computers. I am currently attending college to get my degree in Psychology, writing indie erotica for publishing online(under a pen name), and am also writing a novel(in a more normal genre.

I am currently in an polyamorous/open relationship with a beautiful redhead. She is on here under sillyme1979, so if that bothers you, please move on.

Okay, so this is long overdue. I'm going to clear the air here. I am Switch with Dominant tendencies. This means that I am dominant more often than I am submissive, I'd say that about 90-95% of the time I'm Dom. I am kinky, perverse, and into BDSM. Honestly I don't care about the percentage matches on here, because most people don't put what they really want or think in their questions for fear of what people will think about them. I'm a no bull kind of person.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm writing porn under a pseudonym....because porn is good.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I make people laugh constantly(even when I'm trying to be serious, so I don't know if that's a good thing or not)I'm good at listening, and sometimes at giving advice. I'm horrible about listening to my own advice though.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm short...just kidding. I'd have to say my "no BS" personality. That and people say that I look like a convict...not that I think thats a bad thing. And people also complain that I don't smile in my pictures...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Sci-fi/Fantasy, political thrillers, mysteries, pretty much just about anything written as long as it is written well. Non-fiction about WWII and Vietnam. I have been reading quite a bit of the classics lately(Oscar Wilde, Tolkien, Lewis Carroll). I also like to read about real crime and serial killers. Anything by David Weber, Jim Butcher, Laurel K Hamilton, Neal Stephenson, Vince Flynn, Roger Zelazny. Sun Tzu, Machiavelli.

Food...hmmm, i'll try anything once...I love mexican and italian...and steak...and...fuck it, if it moo's, crows, caws, or even breathes, and will fit on my barbeque grill, its fair game. The gods made me omnivorous for a reason. Let them eat meat!

Music...Disturbed, VNV Nation, Powerman 5000, Porcelain and the Tramps, Uriah, Motorhead, Machinehead, Wolfsheim...if its loud, fast, has a good beat, or just sounds good, I'll listen to it. Lately have been listening to Sinatra, Buble, and the classics ;)

Movies/TV...Office Space, Boondock Saints, Serenity/Firefly, LotR, NCIS, Myth Busters, Dirty Jobs, Scrubs, Torchwood, Doctor Who, the Dresden Files, any kind of horror flick. I do seem to have a penchant for shows that will soon be usually before the 1st season is even over.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids, my cats, the internet, good food, good friends, and books.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My kids, who I haven't seen in almost a year. My book, which I've been trying to write for years now, but never seem to have the time. The war in Iraq, and the friends that I've lost over there. The current political climate, and the economic problems that the country has yet to face. Its not over yet people, the slide has only begun unless something major comes along to stop it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Chilling at home doing homework, thinking about going out, but rethinking it and staying in. Sometimes I curl up with a nice glass of scotch or whiskey and watch horror flicks until my eyes bleed. Watching a lot of BBC and AMC shows.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That I like to sing out loud....and am horrible at it. Ever heard a half-deaf person sing?(yes, I AM almost half deaf)....Its not a pretty picture.

On a more serious note, I have PTSD, which does affect my social skills. I hate crowded areas because of this, and my hearing precludes me from being in loud places and being able to hold a conversation at the same time.

I have an insane weakness for redheads.....

I'm also kinky as hell. I like to inflict pain and push limits during sex.
You should message me if
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You can tell where my nick comes from(and if you say "Lord of the Rings" I will flog you!) It is a very esoteric reference so I won't hold it against you if you don't.

Like what you can see of my sense of humor or interests.

Aren't completely egotistical(I have enough ego on my own, thankyouverymuch)

If you are smarter than the average bear and think you can keep up.

Please don't message me if all you ever do is hang out in loud environments like bars and clubs. I like to go to them occasionally, but not all the time, especially since I have hearing issues and have trouble socially interacting in loud environments.

If you don't understand sarcasm, don't bother, you will only be lost and confused, and I hate explaining myself.

If you don't like blunt honesty and a lack of tact that borders on rudeness, then you might want to pass me up. I don't feel like wasting my time sparing people's feelings when a good sharp poke at the offending area can take care of the problem one way or another.

If you're a hot/intelligent redhead....