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RomaDescartes

23 F Traverse City, MI

I’m looking for

  • Bi guys and girls
  • Ages 21–27
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 16
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Gemini, and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Hospitality
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm 23, living on my own. I'm huge into technology, and spend a lot of time on the internet. I love to cosplay, but find I spend more time dreaming and planning of cosplays that never get finished. I'm totally the girl that will get dressed up in a warm scarf and riding boots, Starbucks in hand, to go exploring a graveyard or the woods come fall.

I'm extremely accepting and supporting of LGBTQIA+ and polyamory. I am queer, bisexual (leaning towards women), and poly. If you have a problem with me being in another relationship, then I'm probably not the girl for you. That being said, I'm not looking to be the "cool queer girl" you can have a threesome with or experiment with. I'm also not looking to be an addition to a relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
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At the moment I'm sort of at a stand still where I'm trying to figure out just what I want (or more like what I don't want). I work as a full-time 3rd shift stocker, and when I can manage to get together with a friend it's generally for breakfast and walks in the morning.

I'm looking into going back to school for my bachelors in psychology within the next year, and I can't wait to return to formal schooling. What I'd like to do with it... I've given some thought into teaching, but who knows?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My job. Or to be more accurate, keeping a good work ethic and proving relentlessly that I set the bar. I'm also really good at overreacting, reading into situations (thank you passive-aggressive parent and coworkers!), and anxiety. I'm also really great at starting projects and never finishing them, to the point where I still have craft stuff from elementary school.

Consistently proving I'm a better shot with a 9mm than my boss. Generally having fun shooting various guns and unexpectedly being the one to hit the tannerite and make a big boom. However I am crap with a shotgun.

I do have anxiety and depression (every fucking January...), which is normally manageable with friends and distractions. I'm really not one to talk about these, though, unless I'm close to someone and it's occurring at the time. On the flip side, though, I have become pretty independent and self-sufficient by trying to prepare for various disasters from a bad front wheel bearing to infected piercings. (In case you're wondering, sea salt soaks and Bactine are gifts from god with any piercing problem I've had.)

I'm also super good at spoiling my cats and giving them snurgles.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably my hair. It's always cut strangely, or dyed, to the point where I now get harassed by coworkers over when I'm going to change it up. Probably my eyes or smile next, but I haven't really ever been in a position where I've been told.

Otherwise, I normally either come off as quiet, authoritative and snobish (because I'm really awkward with new people), or confident, sarcastic and blunt. I'm also a retail worker, so without even meaning to, I'm direct, quiet, mindful of my space, and polite. It's also why I'll go make you ask an employee rather than wander around for half an hour looking for something.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors: Kim Harrison. (The Hollows series is my lifeblood.)

Movies: PotC, the Mummy, Howl's Moving Castle, Spirited Away, LotR, High School Musical, Iron Man (basically anything Marvel)

Shows: Game of Thrones, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, American Horror Story, The Walking Dead, Farscape

Anime/manga: Yu Yu Hakusho, Fullmetal Alchemist, Yu-Gi-Oh!, Witch Hunter Robin, .hack//SIGN, Angel Sanctuary, Samurai Deeper Kyo, Wolf's Rain, Naruto, Skip Beat, Free!

Video Games: Final Fantasy, Kingdom Hearts, Shadow Hearts, Folklore, Resident Evil, DotHack, Castlevania, The Sims, Parasite Eve, Persona, Catherine, Portal 2

Music: Avenged Sevenfold, Black Veil Brides, Escape the Fate, Falling in Reverse, Three Days Grace, Sick Puppies*, Dir en Grey, The Band Perry, Good Charlotte, Panic! at the Disco, My Chemical Romance, Red Jumpsuit Apparatus*, Kalafina*, Ke$ha, Nicki Minaj, Maroon 5, Papa Roach*, Seether*

(* seen live)

Food: Chinese, pasta, bread, Domino's pizza, potato soup, egg sandwiches, potato anything really..., smoothies and slushies
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-A safe place to always return to
-Technology
-My lovely babus (Elendil, a white tabby mix, Ghost, a black long hair) and my best friend Ashe_Uprising
-A reliable escape
-Hope for a better world
-Good stories
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Bills. As much as I say I wish I could stay at home and play video games all day long, I've done it enough on my vacations to know it's boring.

Otherwise, I spend a lot of time thinking about work, my cats, shows I'm interested in, stories in my head, continuing my education, feminism, wanting to draw my characters but not being dedicated enough to any of my hobbies to get better. I just want to try everything!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Without a doubt working. It's hard for me to get the energy up to go out on a night off, because 3rd shift makes me crave nothing more than a normal sleep schedule.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I really like roleplaying, however, I only do this if I'm totally comfortable with the other person. (Sexually and non.)

Does saying, "I don't like Star Wars," count? Not exactly private, but people tend to act like the world is ending when I admit this. I also find Harry Potter overrated. Oh, and for the life of me I can't get into Firefly. Sorry, not sorry. Also don't try to play the "GASP YOU DON'T LIKE ____"card in an attempt to be cute or flirty. You sound stupid and disrespectful.
You should message me if
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you would genuinely like to get to know me and would like to pursue something, even just a friendship. I'm really bad at communicating on OKC, mostly because I don't like it, but I do have a tumblr.

You're not looking for a threesome or to liven up your current relationship. I am not looking for couples.