Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
naturally and intensely curious about anything and
everything...there is nothing i don't know that i find too
boring...when i have learnt it, then i clearly find certain things
more intriguing and stimulating than others...
same goes for people....i like meeting new people...especially
those who are probably very different from me and my world...i like
diversity...it feeds my thoughts, my emotions and my physical
i was fortunate enough to live in many parts of the world...in
different continents...i met people with an amazing variety of
background, culture, likes&dislikes, open minded and narrow
minded...all interesting...i didn't like them all....some i
hated...but still...even the ones i hated unknowingly taught me
something...what i DIDN'T want to be if nothing else...
i am usually relaxed and easy going (well, maybe some of the people
working for me might disagree with that!) but i love...i crave the
adrenaline rushes...i drive both motorbikes and cars on
racetracks...i love the sudden change in pace...the spike in your
heartbeat, the intense emotions that take your mind somewhere
many years ago someone very wise told me this sentence: never talk
when you can listen...that day i started learning...really
i am in a relationship and no my partner does not know about this
place...and i am not looking to change that...i am totally happy in
so for the few of you who are still reading....i am looking for
people to live and experience things that i do not have in my
relationship....partners in crime...friends with (kinky) benefits
(and yes...the focus is on "friends" and not on "benefits" :O)
to be clear [stop rolling your eyes!) :o) ]....this is not just
about sex...i am not looking for a one night stand...been there
done that and learnt that they do nothing for me in the
process....i'd like to find like minded, open minded people who are
not hung up on stereotypes, inhibitions, boundaries, pre-baked
it sounds impossible...but in fact it isn't....very difficult
yes...but hey if you don't play the lotto then you cannot complain
you didn't win (in fact i haven't bought a lotto ticket in a long
time...but i am not complaining either!)! :O)
Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing, there is a field. I
will meet you there.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
just moved back to Europe after several years in North
America...based in Rome but diving my time also betwren Amsterdam
and Lonfon...and having a lot of fun in the process!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking, driving motorbikes (not a very useful skill in Canada!),
figuring people out, kinky sex, making people laugh (once i know
them), kissing, climbing stairs instead of riding elevators,
courting a woman, listening....
The first things people usually notice about me
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that i don't take life and/or myself too seriously!
i am a good boy with unconventional desires! :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I will not read your answer to this question
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what is the first thought that came to you mind when you looked at
my profile pic (the one with the guys kissing the girl's
well...ok...i am not really spending a lot of time thinking abut
this but i am curious! :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
certainly (well at least...hopefully!) relaxing
probably having a beer...only small breweries (i seldom drink
during the week)
likely trying to figure out what comes next (which could very well
be a relaxing evening at home!)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i find muscular women very sexy....always fantasized about a roll
in the hey with a female bodybuilder...
also...i find freckles sexy!
PS: i have a profile on the other site as well! :O)
You should message me if
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if you have read my profile
if you are a girl interested in connecting with a bi male for a
no-expectation drink or coffee just to see whether we click and
chemistry is there
you are girl who understands that being bi doesn't mean being "in
the closet" but, rather, it opens to wide array of "additional
possibilities" (which you will always be free to take or not!)! :O)
(for more info see my answer to a related question!)
you are a relaxed couple and you are looking to play.
you are sex positiev, open minded and are intrigued by the idea of
interacting with an easy going, adventurous and somewhat intricate
oh yes...you must enjoy..well no...you must love kissing (and being
kissed)....the adrenaline of that split second before our lips
a bonus if you also have a profile on FL :O)
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