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Romanticman1965

44 / M / straight / Single

Elgin, Illinois

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am Romantic, Honest, and Passionate.

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My Self-Summary

I am a honest, passionate, sincere and caring 43 year old man
looking for the real thing. No game players or con artists need reply.
I love to travel, play and watch sports, and I love animals. I like to spoil my mate and treat her with respect. I am very loyal (I have never nor will I ever cheat). I have a great sense of humor and a magnetic personality. I also have direction and a purpose in my life. I am intelligent and witty and sometimes sarcastic. If you like what you see please reply. I'm not into games, nor do I have the time for them! I'm looking for a person who is honest, and who doesn't have a problem communicating. Those are the two most important things in a relationship!
My ideal 1st date would be at a quiet and semi-private place where we can talk and get to know each other.

What I’m doing with my life

I am looking for a new career, I went back to school last semester for Computer Networking and Nursing. I really would like to find someone to become my better half in life and love. It has been more than a year since I got out of a long, serious relationship. I have made mistakes but have learned from them. I am trully ready to enter into a meaningful and fullfilling relationship. Hopefully this would be the last one, I am a serious monogamist, and have never, ever cheated. I am honest to a fault.

I’m really good at

Cooking, fixing things around the house and communication.
I also like to learn new things each day.
I am very compassionate and am a good listener.
I am good at empathizing with people to find out why they are behaving the way they do.
Everything I do...does that cover everything?

Do I put kissing under this section???????........lol

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile and eyes. I have a great sense of humor once they get past the eyes...lol I can be moody, my mood is usually set by the people around me...

They can't see this but I am a Scorpio !!!!!!!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I like pizza, steak and seafood. Love music except rap, indie rock is awesome. I like alot of different movies, Titantic, Jerry McGuire, and guy movies too. "The Red Fern Grows" was ny favorite book of all time. It is about a boy and his 2 coon dogs in the Ozarks, I believe. One dog was killed by a bear protecting the boy and the other was so devastated it lost the will to live and starved to death. On the grave of the 2 dogs a Red Fern Grew, an Indian legend. Now that is true love in all aspects...

The six things I could never do without

1. My 2 boys
2. My PUTER
3. A great Gal
4. Football
5. Cuddling
6. Kissing

Did I mention Cuddling and kissing???????????

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My future and my Boys. Also, trying to meet that special lady.
I think about how to become a better man and father often.
I try not to dwell on the negative, but planning is important to success in all areas of life.
Trying to think about 1000 words, so I can get to the next level...lol

On a typical Friday night I am

Right now I don't do much on the weekends except hanging with my kids.
I would love to have a mate and best friend to fill some of that time.

I guess this Friday I will be typing more here to get to 1000 words..........
College wasn't this hard............lol

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Is that I have been known to cry at sad movies.

You should message me if

You are between 28 and 46 years old and live in the Chicago area.
Want to find out if there may be a spark between us and definetly if you are looking for a serious, Long-term relationship.

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