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31 London, UK Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:53pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Japanese (Fluently), Turkish (Poorly), French (Poorly), Ancient Greek (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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EDIT: currently splitting my time between Istanbul and London so my location will change!

Blindly adventurous, passionate about being random, open-hearted, good at procrastinating, and probably do a little too much self deprecating but I consider it a quirky humility. Definitely a INFJ.

From the UK and brought up in an international family, I've always been comfortable with being in unfamiliar surroundings.

I think my friends would say that I have a free soul and I always look after the people I love. The one thing I value most in life is experiencing new things with new people, and broadening my tiny, insignificant mind. I love my family more than anything since without them I wouldn't be here today!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying it! Youth is wasted on the young, and I'm going to prove it! First I need to quit my desk job, sure, but small steps...blah blah blah :)

In reality, I am working in a creative industry managing creative individuals on year long projects. It keeps me very busy but I love a challenge and it's the reason I came to Germany.
EDIT: that was me up until start of last year. Now I'm be unemployed and find work on my own two feet as a freelance translator / writer!

On a more personal note, I'm enjoying...well me. Sounds dumb and self-obsessed, but not if you haven't really thought about how important it is to like you for who you are.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm not really GREAT at anything (wow, that made an impact), but I'm pretty good at languages (at least figuring them out if not speaking them), I write well and I've got some hops (played basketball for 20 years). Not bad at photography (read: thinks he's better than he really is). Other random stuff that doesn't sound attractive now I say them but what the hell...

- locking myself out of my apartment
- forgetting gloves in the winter
- knowing useless comic book facts
- being a food snob since living in Japan
- chronically avoiding opening mail because I find it redundant
- terrible at responding to emails only when it's super important and urgent
- saving time by never watching the last act of a movie I've seen before
- convincing myself I'm knowledgable on a topic after reading one book on the subject
- be more confident in another language than my native tongue
- never dusting my apartment even though I have a pretty bad dust allergy
- enjoying any kind of music or band by listening to one album, then only listen to that one album in case it spoils the experience

I will add more when I have more time.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm easy to talk to!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Underground (Murakami's one. Eye-opening to the depths of human depravity), Hard-Boiled Wonderland and the End of the World (unabashedly illogical and fantastical), The Stand (good vs. evil--what more do you want?), The Art of War (some of life's greatest lessons learnt here). And if I might be so bold to mention some graphic novels, The Crow (such real sorrow), The Walking Dead (thrilling human trauma), Assassin (great symphonic art and comic book writing), The Stuff of Legend (why boys read comics--they can't relinquish their childhood).

Food is all about Asian cuisine, especially Japanese. And I could list a million dishes that I like, but better to say that I love to eat out and do so more than is healthy to. Making and eating food is a real passion of mine, and I'll eat anything to be honest.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Oven (love to cook)
Roof over my head
Telephone to reach my friends and family
Backpack to take away in a heartbeat
Meeting new people who are nothing like me
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How can I get to the next best place that is clearly better than where I am, though I've never taken enough time to appreciate my current abode! Oh, that and moody Brit crime dramas.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Complaining about how late I leave work, then expending all my weekend energy at the gym before bitching and moaning about my 'superiors' at work over a pint with mates. And maybe a good home cooked meal and episodes of liberal US comedies.

Friday is never the same twice, anyway! Wednesday is the new Friday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I once came 3rd in a embassy-based speech contest and was so angry that i didn't come 1st that I hit the free drinks at the closing ceremony and drank so much that I threw up at a bus stop next to a foreign dignitary. And no...this isn't even close to the MOST private thing I am willing to admit in person ;)
You should message me if
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What? You mean the stuff I wrote above doesn't interest you and you need even more persuading?! ;)